Umfazi ohlakaniphile ukhetha indoda enovalo .. Iindlela zobugqi zokujongana nomyeni oxhalabileyo

Musa ukumangaliswa, sithandwa sam, xa usazi ezi nkcukacha zilandelayo .. Uphando oluninzi kunye nezifundo zengqondo ziye zabonisa ukuba umfazi ohlakaniphile nguye okhetha indoda exhalabileyo, ene-moody phezu komyeni ozolileyo, ovuyayo kuye !!

Ngokutsho kwezifundo, indoda ezolile, eyonwabileyo yindoda engaqondakaliyo, ekwaziyo ukubala amanyathelo akhe, kwaye iyazi ukuba ithini na i-concession kumfazi, kunye nexesha lokucaphuka, kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into enenkani ngaphezu komsindo we-nervous! Ngokuchaseneyo noloyiko nomothuko ocinga ngezigqibo zakhe ukuba ngokuziphatha kwakhe, ukuphakuzela kwakhe nokucaphuka kwakhe, ubeka ubuntu bakhe emfazini, ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe lokuba umtyhilele izitshixo zobuntu bakhe kunye nobuthathaka bakhe, obubangela ukuba angabi naxhala. umfazi okrelekrele ukujongana nezi zitshixo ngokukhululeka nangokuzola.

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Izifundo zengqondo ziqinisekisa ukuba umntu oxhalabileyo kulula ukukhokela, unentliziyo enobubele, unentlalontle, kwaye uyakhawuleza ukuncoma, xa kuthelekiswa nolonwabo oluzolileyo oluwazi ngokupheleleyo amaxesha akhe omsindo kunye namaxesha xa esenza iminyinyiva encinci ngokuthanda kwakhe. yomfazi .. Uphononongo lukwathi umfazi othanda ukukhetha indoda eshwabeneyo nexhalabileyo nguMfazi obonakaliswa ngobukrelekrele bemvelo, kuba uqonda ngethuku lobufazi ukuba ungumyeni ofanelekileyo, oyena unenkani, oququzelela ubunkokeli bakhe kwaye ukulawula ukuguquguquka kwakhe ngokwasengqondweni ngokumtshonisa kwintabalala yothando, ububele kunye nomtsalane wobufazi.

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Ukuphakuzela komyeni kuphakathi kwezinto umfazi anokuhlangabezana nazo ngobulumko, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ukhetho lunxulumane kuqala nombandela wenkolo elungileyo neyokuziphatha kakuhle kwendoda, aze ke umfazi athabathe indlela efanelekileyo yokucinywa komtshato. isimo sengqondo kunye novalo kwindlela yokuziphatha komyeni wakhe, ngoko ke kufuneka alandele ezinye zeendlela ezimnceda ukuba amkhuphe amatyala Umsindo wakhe ngenxa yezizathu ezingenamsebenzi, okanye ukuguquka kwemeko yakhe ngaphandle kwesizathu esincinci saloo nto, kwaye phakathi kwezo ndlela:

Yazi into ebangela uvalo kunye neemvakalelo zakhe

Umfazi ohlakaniphile unokwazi ukuziphatha okubangela ukuxhalaba komyeni wakhe kunye nokwandisa isimo sakhe sengqondo, ngokusebenzisa ishumi phakathi kwabo. omoya wakhe utshintsha xa ukutya kusemva kwexesha kuye, okanye xa uphuma endlwini Ngoko, zama ukulungiselela ukutya ngexesha, kwaye uhlale ekhaya, okanye unciphise ukutyelela kwakho kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo, kwaye ubenze ngaphakathi kwemida yemfuneko epheleleyo.

Kulumkele ukukhupha iingcebiso kunye nokucela uxolo
Xa umyeni wakho esoyika, akafuni kuva iingcebiso okanye imiyalelo, kwaye into efanelekileyo ngelo xesha kukuphepha ukuthetha naye ngamazwi athile akhokelayo, ngoko musa ukumxelela (zola - yima - kwanele) okanye (ilula into engafanelekanga ukuba umsindo wakho kunye novalo) okanye (gcina impilo yakho) Okanye amanye amagama anokuthi abe negalelo ekwandiseni uvalo lwakhe. Konke okufuneka ukwenze ke mhlawumbi uhlale uzolile, okanye usebenzise amabinzana angaqhelekanga afana nalawa (njengoko uthanda) okanye (ukuba ufuna, umcimbi uya kutshintsha njengoko ufuna) .. njalo njalo .. njengoko kufanelekile Ukuphepha ukucela uxolo kuye kakhulu, ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngakumbi ukuba umzuzwana ukuguquka kweemvakalelo ngesiquphe.

Ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho akwanele
Kuyinyani ukuba ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, kwaye ungakhange ujongane naye, kwaye uphendule kuye ngamazwi asebenzayo, kunceda ukunciphisa umsindo wakhe, kodwa unokukwazi ukuwucima umsindo we-volcano ngokulawula iimvakalelo zomzimba wakho, ngolwimi lomzimba, ungamjongi ngendelelo nangempoxo, ungamjongi njengendelelo nokumxina, okanye ushukumise imilebe yakho – umzekelo, ngendlela eyandisa imo yakhe nomsindo.

Mxelele ngezihlandlo zoxolo
Xa sithetha ngolo hlobo ke, asithethi ukuba ubhenela ekumtyholelweni nokumtyhola, koko bonakalisa uthando lwakho kuye uze umamkele njengoko enjalo, uze umcele ukuba akubonise iintlobo zezinto azithiyileyo okanye ezandisa uloyiko lwakhe kuye. xa uthe wazenza ngexesha lomsindo wakhe, kunye nemfuneko yoku ibe ngamaxesha okuzola phakathi kwenu, ukufumana yonke into kuye.

Khumbula iimpawu zakhe ezintle
Musa ukuhenda isifuba sakho nengqondo yakho ngeengxabano kunye noloyiko lomyeni wakho, kwaye umshiyele indawo, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba uyakuthanda, kungenjalo ngengazange adibane nawe.Musa ukukhawulela ukucinga kwakho kuloyiko olubi kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe. .

Yiba mnandi kwaye unoxanduva
Ukuthambisa umoya wosapho ngokuzonwabisa kunye noburharha, kuya koyisa - kwiimeko ezininzi - iimeko zokuphelelwa lithemba kunye nokuphelelwa lithemba ezibekwe ziimeko zokuphila, umsebenzi kunye noxanduva, kwaye unokudlala le ndima kwezinye iimeko Kwaye umsindo ukhokelela kukwaneliseka kunye nokwamkelwa. , yonwaba rhoqo, kwaye ulungelelanise imo yakhe ngendlela eyakhayo nenoxanduva.

Khumbula, akangofaro
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na indoda yakho ixhala kunye nomoya, khumbula ukuba ungumntu, kwaye unokuchatshazelwa ngumsebenzi kunye neengxaki zokuphila, okanye ezinye iimeko, kwaye wazi ukuba ungumyeni wakho noyise wabantwana bakho, kwaye akayi kuba - kungakhathaliseki ukuba indlela yena - omnye uFaro Umfazi ophatha uThixo, kwaye usondela kuye ngenkathalo yakhe, ngokulindela Noble Face kaThixo.

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Kushiyeke into yokugqibela - mfazi othandekayo - ukuhlebela ngasese endlebeni yakho, ukuze umyeni angalazi iyelenqe lothando olukhulu onalo ngaye, kwaye uzama ukuba nalo. ithala leencwadi elixoxa ngento malunga nemicimbi yosapho kunye nobudlelwane bezibini, ukukunceda udlule uhambo olumnandi lobomi bonke ngothando oluzinzileyo, olungagungqiyo ngazo zonke iimeko kunye neempembelelo.