Unokuqola njani kwaye ukhule ngokweemvakalelo?

Unokuqola njani kwaye ukhule ngokweemvakalelo?

Umntu ukrelekrele okanye ufundile, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba sisilumko kufuneka akhule ngokweemvakalelo.

Njengoko iimvakalelo zinokuba zizinto ezikhohlisayo, ezinokuthi zibe sizathu sokuthatha imikhwa emibi ngokulula, ethintela ukukhula komntu kwexesha elide kunye nokukhula, ngokutsho kweHack Spirit.

Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zilandelayo zinokuba ziindlela zokuhlangabezana, kodwa umntu kufuneka afunde indlela yokuzaphula ukuba ufuna ukukhula ngakumbi ngokweemvakalelo:

1. Ukwenza izizathu zokuhlala kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela

Izizathu ziyahluka kwizithethe. Kodwa ekugqibeleni zinokusetyenziswa ngokutshintshanayo. Umntu kufuneka abe nesibindi sokunyaniseka kuye. Xa esoyika ukusilela, ukulahlekelwa, okanye ukwaliwa, uye akhangele izizathu zokuba angaqalisi.

Ngoko ke, umele akulungele ukujamelana nalo mbandela ngokunyaniseka, njengoko engenakukwazi ukwenza utshintsho ebomini bakhe ngaphandle kokuba enze oko anokoyika ukukwenza.

2. Kuphephe ukuxhalaba

Ukuba ubuxoki umntu azixelele ukuba yinxalenye yokuqala, ke inxalenye yesibini iya kumnyanzela ukuba abhekane noloyiko lwakhe, oko kukuthi, avume uloyiko lwakhe kwaye akhethe ukuqhubela phambili.

Xa esenza isigqibo esisengqondweni sokuthatha amanyathelo nangona engonwabanga, wongeza ukuzithemba kwakhe kunye nokuzikholelwa kwaye ufumana ukomelela. Akukho ndlela imfutshane, kwaye eli nyathelo alinakwenziwa ngokwethiyori, kodwa kufuneka kuthathwe amanyathelo asebenzayo. Okukhona umntu esiba neemvakalelo ezingakhululekanga eziza nokukhula, kokukhona ziya kuba ngcono ekuhambeni kwexesha.

3. Ukuzama ukubaleka iimvakalelo "ezimbi".

"IiVibes eziLungileyo kuphela" yenza isitikha esihle kakhulu. Kodwa kukho i-positivity eyityhefu eninzi exutywe kunye neemvakalelo. Oku akuthethi ukuba umntu akanakuzuza ekuphumleni nasekufundeni ukungoyiki ngenxa yezizathu ezilula.

Noko ke, iimvakalelo ezibizwa ngokuba “zimbi” zikwayinto eqhelekileyo yobomi. Ngokufuthi kwiinzame zokususa ezi mvakalelo zingathandekiyo, ziye zishiywe zingaconjululwanga okanye iindlela zokuziphepha zifunyanwa. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo, kufuneka afunde indlela yokuvuma iimvakalelo zakhe aze amvumele ukuba afumane amazwi aphilileyo.

4. Ukuqondwa ngokugqithiseleyo kweemvakalelo

Ngeendlela ezininzi, uluntu olungqonge umntu lunokubonisa ukuba iimvakalelo zibaluleke ngaphezu kwazo.

Iimvakalelo zinokuba yimiqondiso enamandla kakhulu enika ingqiqo kunye nemikhondo, kodwa kukho enye inyani ebalulekileyo, phezu kwayo ukuba iimvakalelo azikho iinyani kwaye izenzo azinakusekwa kuphela kwiimvakalelo, kuba umntu unokugqiba ukuchonga ngokusondeleyo iimvakalelo ezidlula kubo. Ngoko ke udala amabali ngezo mvakalelo ezinokumkhokelela ekubeni akhubeke okanye azitshabalalise.

5. Fumana i-scapegoat yeemvakalelo

Umntu kufuneka athathe uxanduva olupheleleyo nolupheleleyo kuyo yonke into abayifumanayo, kuba isakhelo abaqhuba kuso onke amava sihlala singaphakathi.

Oko kuthetha ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani kubo, akusiyo isizathu okanye isizathu sokuba uphendule njani, njengoko kulula kakhulu ukuba umntu abeke ityala ngezenzo zakhe njengempendulo kumntu okanye kwenye into. Ukuzibandakanya kolu hlobo lokuziphatha kuthintela ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo.

6. Ukubambelela kwixesha elidlulileyo

Yindalo yomntu ukutyhala umva kubangela intlungu, kodwa ukufunda izifundo kuyinto elungileyo. Kukwakho umahluko omkhulu phakathi koku nokubambelela koku kungasentla. Ukubambelela kwinqala okanye ukucaphuka, ukuzikhumbuza rhoqo ngeentsilelo zakudala okanye amaxesha abuhlungu, kunye nokugubha kwixesha elidlulileyo kuphazamisa ukuzinza kwengqondo okwangoku.

Umntu usenokufunda kumava anawo ngelixa kwangaxeshanye esamkele ukuba akukho tshintsho kuye. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ufuna ukuxolela abanye, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka azixolele.

7. Ukukhathalela kakhulu ukukholisa abanye

Abantu abafuna ngamandla ukukholisa abanye badla ngokuhlupheka:

• Ubunzima ekwamkeleni ukwaliwa.
• Inkxalabo enzulu malunga nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngabo.
• Hamba kunye nezimvo okanye izimvo zabanye abantu ukuze ubonakale wamkelekile ngakumbi, ngethemba lokuba baya kuthandwa ngakumbi.
• Ukungazinaki ukunceda abanye.
• Ukufuna ukuvunywa nokunconywa ngabanye ngemvakalelo yokwaneliseka.
• Fihla iimvakalelo, izimvo kunye neemfuno ukuba azithandwa.

Ewe kunzima ukungakhathali ukuba abantu bacinga ntoni ngathi, kwaye wonke umntu uyakuthanda ukuthandwa. Kodwa xa ezi zinto ziba yeyona nto iphambili, umntu uncama impilo yakhe yeemvakalelo.

Ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo kuthetha ukukwazi ukujongana necala elithambileyo leemvakalelo. Imalunga nokubeka imida nokufunda indlela yokuzimela. Eli nyathelo alinakuthatyathwa logama nje umntu esoloko enikezela okanye engcatsha iimvakalelo zakhe ngenxa yomnye umntu. Iingcali zicebisa ukuba uthathe la manyathelo alandelayo ukuze ube ngumntu onolwazi kakhulu kwaye oqolileyo:

• Thatha indlela enengqondo kwaye uzijonge ngokunyanisekileyo.
• Ukufuna ukujongana namanqaku okubaleka ngokweemvakalelo.
• Thatha uxanduva olupheleleyo ngeemvakalelo zakho.
• Ukunyamezela iimpazamo, kodwa ngaphandle kwezenzi okanye ubaxo.
• Ukuvuma ukuthetha ngendlela umntu aziva ngayo.
• Chonga iimfuno kwaye ubeke imida yokuzikhusela.

Uqikelelo lukaMaguy Farah lwehoroscope yonyaka ka-2023