Uqhubana njani nomntu ongenangqondo?

Ubukho bomntu ongenangqondo ebomini bethu luhlobo olunzima lwembandezelo, lo mntu unokubakho kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla, emsebenzini okanye ekhaya, kwaye kufuneka sijongane naye, ngoko kufuneka sifumane kuphela indlela esebenzayo. ukuhlalisana nolu hlobo lwabantu... Nanga amanye amacebiso okujongana nomntu ongenangqiqo.

sukuyixoxa 

Naluphi na uhlobo lwencoko olubalulekileyo okanye olulula, kuphephe ukuxubusha nayo.

Musa ukuba neemvakalelo 

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomsindo kangakanani na umntu, musa ukuvuyiswa kwaye ugcine ukuzola kwakho phambi kwakhe, kuba ngokuzola uya kufikelela kwiziphumo ezivakalayo, kwaye mhlawumbi incoko phakathi kwakho iya kufikelela kwindawo eqhelekileyo.

yiba ngumphulaphuli 

Yiba ngumphulaphuli kwaye uthi "ewe" kuye, nokuba awuzithandi iimbono zakhe kule nto, uzihlisele kwingxabano engenamsebenzi.

ixesha elimnandi 

Ngexesha elithile, kuya kufuneka uxubushe umbandela othile kunye naye, ixesha elifanelekileyo lomntu ongenangqiqo kukusebenzisa isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, emva koko uya kuvuma ukuveza iingcamango.

Eminye imixholo:

Ujongana njani nonyokozala onomona?

Uhlangabezana njani nabalinganiswa abangaqondakaliyo?

Kunini abantu besithi ukumgangatho ophezulu?

Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka

Uwuphepha njani umsindo wendoda enomona?

Xa abantu bekhobokisa kuwe baze banamathele kuwe?

Ufumanisa njani ukuba indoda iyakuxhaphaza?

Indlela yokuba sesona sohlwayo siqatha kumntu omthandayo kwaye akuphoxe?

Yintoni ekwenza ubuyele emntwini obugqibe ukuba umyeke?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ocaphukisayo?

Uqhubana njani nomntu onesithukuthezi?

Zeziphi izizathu ezikhokelela ekupheleni kobudlelwane?

Ujongana njani nomyeni ongalazi ixabiso lakho nongakuxabisiyo?

Sukwenza ezi zenzo phambi kwabantu, kuba zibonisa umfanekiso ombi ngawe

Iimpawu ezisixhenxe zokuthiya umntu