Uqhubana njani nomntu obawayo?
Uqhubana njani nomntu obawayo?
Uqhubana njani nomntu obawayo?
musani ukuba nosizi
Umlinganiswa obawayo akazikhathaleli iimvakalelo zabanye, kwaye akoyiki ukubakhathaza.
ukuxhaphaza
Umntu obawayo unobuchule bokusebenzisa kakubi abanye, yaye akalibazisi ukuxhaphaza abanye de afikelele usukelo lwakhe.
umona
Umona liqabane lokubawa, yaye umntu onyolukileyo nonomnqweno onamandla wokufuna okungakumbi, usenokunqwenela oko abanye abanako, aze afune ukukufumana.
Ukubona izinto ezikufutshane
Umntu obawayo usoloko efuna ulwaneliseko olukhawulezileyo nenzuzo ekhawulezileyo, kunokucinga nokucebela ikamva.
ukunganeliseki
Umlingiswa obawayo akaneliseki, kwaye uhlala efuna inxalenye enkulu yepayi, nokuba yindleko yabanye. Kwakhona, akuba eyifumene into ayifunayo, ubeka iliso lakhe koko kujoliswe kuko okulandelayo.
“Mna nasemva kwam umkhukula”
Eli binzana lishwankathela umlinganiswa obawayo; Bazingca, babeka phambili ukwanelisa kwabo, yaye abazikhathaleli iimfuno zabanye.
Uhlangabezana njani nobuntu obawayo?
Kusenokufuneka ujongane nomlinganiswa obawayo ngenxa yokusondela kwakhe kuwe, okanye ukubaluleka kwawo kuwe. Nangona kubonakala kunzima, akunakwenzeka, kwaye oku kulandelayo kunokukunceda:
1- Khumbula: ngenxa yokuba ukunyoluka kubi akuthethi ukuba umntu umbi
2-Zola kwaye uziphathe kakuhle.
3- Uvelana nomntu obawayo, kwaye uzame ukuqonda isizathu sokubawa kwakhe. Oku kusenokukwenza ukwazi ukumnceda.
I-4- Mnike uncedo ukuba uziva ekulungele ukutshintsha, kwaye unokubhenela kwingcali.
5- Mphephe umntu obawayo xa engakukhathaleli, okanye akwenzele ububi.