Uyifumana njani ingqalelo yabantu ngentetho yakho?

Ukuphembelela abantu nokuphumelela uthando lwabo nokubatsala kulula kakhulu.Iintliziyo zabantu abaninzi zinokuzingelwa ngezakhono ezilula nezilula, ngaphandle kokuba sinyanisekile kwinto esiyenzayo, kwaye phakathi kwezi zakhono kukho izakhono zokuthetha.Sihlala sidibana nabantu esidibana nabo. ukuthandana emva kwentlanganiso yokuqala, kunye nabantu esiye siphelise incoko yethu Ukungakhululeki kwaye ungafuni ukudibana nabo kwakhona, imbonakalo yokuqala ibaluleke kakhulu kunokuba sicinga, kwaye xa ichongiwe, kunzima ukuyiguqula, ngoko kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokutsala umdla wabantu kwaye ubatsalele kuwe ngezi ngcebiso:

 Yiba wena kodwa kwindawo elungileyo 

Oku akuthethi ukuba uyazenzisa okanye uyahanahanisa, kodwa ngaba unokwenza ngendlela eqhelekileyo okanye ube nguwe ebudeni bodliwano-ndlebe lomsebenzi, okanye xa udibana nomntu ongazange umbone ngaphambili?

Ukuba nguwe, oku kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uziphathe ngendlela okanye uhlale njengoko uhleli endlwini yakho kwaye ungalawuli amazwi akho okanye inkangeleko yakho, jongana nayo kwaye wenze ngendlela yokuzithemba ukuze ube njalo. , awuyi kuba nenkohliso ukuba wenza ngcono kunokuba unjalo Iya kwenza umfanekiso omhle kuwe.

Gxininisa ingqalelo yakho kwizinto ezifanayo 

Sihlala sithambekele kubantu abafana nabo kwiinkalo ezininzi (indlela yokukhetha amagama athile, kwizinto ezinomdla, kwizifundo nakwimvelaphi yentlalo ...) ukugxila kwimiba efanayo phakathi kwakho kunye nesithethi sakho kwenza ukuba incoko ibe mnandi ngakumbi. kunye nokuqhubeka kwaye kukwenza ulawuleke ngakumbi ekweyiseleni omnye umntu oko akuthethayo .

Suka ekuthongeni kwaye uncome ngokunyanisekileyo

Ukuncoma okunyanisekileyo yenye yezona zinto zithandwa kakhulu entliziyweni yomntu, ngokungafaniyo nokuncoma okukhohlisayo okugxininisa injongo efihlakeleyo emva kokuncoma.Yenza abantu bazive belungile ngawe.Sebenzisa amazwi othando kwaye ubize isithethi sakho ngegama laso.Yenye ye ezona zincomo zithambileyo.

Yiba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo kwaye ucinge ngento onokuthi uyithethe emva kokumamela

Vumela abanye bathethe ngezinto abazithandayo kwaye wonwabe nabo kuba baya konwaba kakhulu kwaye bakhululeke xa bethetha ngezinto abazithandayo kwaye isakhono sakho sikwimpendulo eyakhayo kunye nomdla komnye umntu.

Qhubeka incoko 

Kuphephe ukuzimela kwintetho kwaye ungayilawuli, kodwa thatha inxaxheba kuyo kwaye uphindaphinde izimvo ezibonisiweyo.Musa ukugqithisa ekuphononongeni imbali yakho phambi komthetheleli wakho, kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko, khankanya impumelelo yakho ukukhonza incoko.

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