If the man is smart, the marriage will be happy

It is rare to hear advice directed to the man for a successful married life, and it is usual for us to hear that if the marriage fails, it is made by the woman alone, and if it succeeds, it is from the good morals of the husband, but this sacred institution depends on two pillars, the husband and the wife together and its destruction. Or its reconstruction is made by the two parties together, and the strongest foundation depends on the man. If he is smart, he makes the marriage happy and makes his wife in love with him, so what are the advice directed to the man?

don't insult her

Do not insult her and do not remind her family badly, because she will forget so that life will go on, but she will never forget the insult.

Don't force your culture on it 

Do not impose your culture on her because you are a professor of economics or chemistry, and she does not know anything about them. This does not mean that she is ignorant or uneducated. Fahmy is educated in another field that may not interest you.

Balance with your family

You have to balance your love for her and your love for your family, and do not wrong one part of them, for she does not hate them, but rather you hate your distinction from them as an alien to them. Forget that it is strange. Consider it a new addition to your family.

Give her confidence

Give your wife her self-confidence. Do not make her a follower in your galaxy and a servant executing your orders. Rather, encourage her to have her own entity, her thinking, and her decision. Consult her in your affairs, and if you do not like her opinion, reject it with goodness.

praise 

Praise your wife when you do a commendable work and do not consider that what you do in your home is a natural duty that does not deserve thanks, and stop reprimanding and insulting and do not compare her to others.

Support 

If your wife gets sick, don't leave her alone. Your emotional support is more important to her than calling a doctor

Be her support now 

I make your wife feel that you can take care of her economically and do not skimp on her no matter how well she is, no matter how well she is. You are the real alternative to her father.

Your wife is not you

Despite the importance of intellectual compatibility between you and your wife, you have to appreciate the points of difference that are unique to you. They cannot be completely identical, but you can consider this simple difference as a distinctive element in the relationship.

love renewal 

Your marital happiness can only continue by renewing your love for your wife. Love is what makes a happy marriage, but rather it is the motivator for all good behavior.

not detract 

Do not be like those men who do not see what their wives have of the positives and virtues and do not look at them except with the eyes of negligence and detraction.

True manhood means prudence in all actions, putting things in perspective, and leading the ship of life on the path of safety and happiness. You are responsible for the happiness of your wife and therefore your happiness and success together.

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