He ʻumi hewa i nā ʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauao, mai hana ʻoe

O ka ohana ka wahi nui no ka hanai pu ana i ke keiki, a he nui na hana hewa a na makua i hahai ai me ka ike ole i ka hanai ana i ka lakou mau keiki, o keia mau mea a kekahi mau makua i manao ai he mea ma'alahi, pili loa i ko lakou mau pono, a i keia la mai Anaslwa mai, he umi nui loa. ʻO nā ala hewa e hāʻule ai kēlā me kēia makuahine a me kēlā me kēia makua kāne i ka hoʻonaʻauao:
1- Ka palekana nui a i ʻole ka makaʻu nui iā lākou a pale iā lākou mai ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i kahi leʻaleʻa a me ka pāʻani ʻana ma lalo o ke kumu o ka makaʻu no lākou

2- Hoʻokahi o nā mākua, ma ka inoa o ke keiki, e hana i nā kuleana a ke keiki e hana hoʻokahi.
3- ʻAʻole hoʻoikaika i kona hilinaʻi iā ia iho
4- E moe mau ana i mua o ke keiki e nā mākua a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo hōʻino
5-Ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hana ʻino, ka uē ʻana, ka hahau mau ʻana a me ka hōʻino ʻana i ke keiki
6- Hoʻonele hou ʻia no ka hoʻonaʻauao
7- ʻO ka hōʻino a me ka hōʻino ʻana i ke keiki ke hana ʻo ia i kahi mea e ʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe
8- Hoʻohālikelike i ke keiki me kekahi keiki
9- E koi ana i ke keiki e hana i nā hana a me nā hana ma mua o kona hiki

10- ʻO ka mālama ʻole ʻana o nā mākua a i ʻole kekahi o lākou no ke keiki ma muli o ko lākou hopohopo mau.