Pehea mākou e hoʻokaʻawale ai i nā hiʻohiʻona koʻikoʻi o ke kanaka homosexual?

ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona e manaʻo wale ai mākou (ʻaʻole maopopo) he ʻano homosexual kēia kanaka penei:

1_ Ke kamaʻilio nui ʻana e pili ana i nā kāne like ʻole

Ke kamaʻilio nei kāu hoaaloha a i ʻole ka hoaaloha me ka hoihoi nui a me ka mahalo e pili ana i ka poʻe o ke kāne hoʻokahi.

Hiki i kēlā me kēia lā ke ʻōlelo aloha i kekahi kanaka, ʻoiai inā he kāne like lākou.

Akā inā nānā kāu keikikāne a i ʻole ka hoaaloha i nā kikoʻī ʻē aʻe e like me (makemake, ʻakaʻaka, ʻanuʻu, nānā... ) no ke kanaka o ka wahine hoʻokahi, hōʻike paha kēia i ko lākou manaʻo moe kolohe i ka poʻe o ka wahine hoʻokahi

2_ ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona hoihoi a me ka hauʻoli i ka poʻe o ka wahine hoʻokahi i waena o nā hōʻailona o kahi keikikāne wehe.

Loaʻa i ka poʻe i loaʻa ka manaʻo pili i ke kāne ʻē aʻe (non-homosexuals) ke nānā nei lākou i ka poʻe o ke kāne me ka mahalo (ka manaʻo o ke kāne i ka wahine a i ʻole ka manaʻo o ka wahine i ke kāne).

ʻOiai ke nānā pono nei ke kāne male kāne a i ʻole ka wahine hoʻokamakama i kahi kāne like

ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou makemake i ka wahine ʻē aʻe (koe wale nō ka poʻe intersex)

3_ ʻO ka manaʻo ʻole i ke alo o ke kāne ʻē kekahi o nā hōʻailona nui o ke keikikāne wehe.

E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai, ʻo kekahi o nā hōʻailona nui loa o ke keikikāne wehe ʻia he anuanu nui a me ka ʻoluʻolu i ka wā e pili ana i ka wahine ʻē. ʻAʻole makemake kou hoa a i ʻole kou hoa aloha i kēia kumuhana me he mea lā ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka wahine ma kēia ao!

Akā, ʻo ka hele ʻana o kēia hōʻailona ʻaʻole wale ia i manaʻo he kāne kāne kāu hoaaloha, he "asexual" paha ʻo ia, a no laila ʻaʻole hoihoi i ke kumuhana o ka moekolohe.

4_ Ke kamaʻilio nei nā mea a pau e pili ana i ka male kāne:

Ma kēlā me kēia kūkākūkā a me kēlā me kēia kūkākūkā e ʻike ʻoe e hoʻāʻo ana kāu hoaaloha e huli i ke kumuhana o ka male kāne a nīnau i nā nīnau pili ʻole e pili ana i nā makemake moe kolohe a me nā makemake o kahi kāne like.

Malia paha ʻo ka ʻike e hoʻohuli iā ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia kumuhana a i ʻole ke aloha i ka ʻike e pili ana i nā kumuhana koʻikoʻi.

Akā inā hana kēia i nā manawa a pau, a laila e hōʻike paha kēia he kāne kāne kāu hoaaloha.

Akā ʻaʻole i kaupalena ʻia nā hiʻohiʻona o kahi kāne kāne kāne kāne a i ʻole nā ​​hiʻohiʻona o ka wahine homosexual i kēia hōʻailona، No laila ʻaʻole pono lākou e hoʻokolokolo ʻia ma muli o nā kumuhana a lākou e kamaʻilio mau nei.

5_ ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona kino kokoke i ke kāne ʻē:

Ua pili kēia hōʻailona a ʻaʻole hiki ke ana ʻia i nā kāne kāne a pau.

ʻO ka hapa nui, makemake ke kāne homosexual passive i ke ʻano o kona ʻaʻahu, ʻōlelo a neʻe i ka wahine.

Akā ʻaʻole kūpono nā kāne kāne a pau i kēia wehewehe, no ka mea, aia nā kāne male kāne ʻaʻole kūpono i ko lākou helehelena i kekahi ʻano wahine.

Hoʻohana like ia i nā wahine homosexual, ʻoiai aia kekahi poʻe i makemake i ke kāne ma ke ʻano o ko lākou ʻaʻahu a me ka ʻōlelo.

Akā ʻaʻole kūpono nā wahine male kāne i kēia wehewehe.

ʻO ka mea maʻamau, inā he kāne kāu hoaaloha a ʻo kona ʻano ʻōlelo a me kāna ʻaʻahu he wahine loa.

A i ʻole inā he wahine kāu hoaaloha a ʻo ke ʻano o kāna kamaʻilio ʻana a me kāna ʻaʻahu he kāne kāne.

He mau mea kēia e noʻonoʻo ai ʻoe he kāne kāne a i ʻole kāu hoaaloha.

6_ ʻAʻohe manaʻo moe kolohe i nā hoaaloha o ke kāne ʻē:

Hoʻopuni ʻia kāu hoaaloha a i ʻole he hoaaloha e nā hoa he nui o ka wahine ʻē aʻe me ka ʻole o ka moe kolohe iā lākou.

No ka laʻana, ʻike ʻoe i kahi kāne male kāne i hoʻopuni ʻia e nā hoaaloha he nui i nā manawa āpau me ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi moe kolohe i kekahi o lākou.

7- Ke kipa ʻana i nā wahi i ʻike ʻia he gay:

Ma ka ʻāina hea o ka honua e ʻike ai ʻoe i kekahi mau wahi e hele ai ka poʻe male kāne, ma ke kānāwai (ma nā ʻāina e ʻike nei i nā kuleana kāne kāne) a i ʻole ma ke kānāwai (ma nā ʻāina e hoʻopaʻi hewa i ka male kāne)

Ma keʻano laulā, ʻike ʻia kēia mau wahi e kipa ʻia e nā kāne kāne, no laila inā kipa kāu hoaaloha i kēia mau wahi, he mea maʻamau ke kānalua i kāna mau makemake moe.

8_ Loaʻa i ka pōʻai hoaaloha nā kāne kāne:

Inā he kāne kane ka hapa nui o kāu hoaaloha a i ʻole ka hoaaloha o kāu hoaaloha, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe inā he kāne kāne pū kekahi.