Pehea ʻoe e hoʻolālā ai i kāu keiki?
Pehea ʻoe e hoʻolālā ai i kāu keiki?
I ka wā hiamoe, aia ko mākou noʻonoʻo ʻike i ka hiamoe nui, akā ke ala mau nei ko mākou naʻau subconscious (unconscious), no laila hiki i kekahi ke loaʻa ka ʻike ākea i ka wā e hiamoe ana, pehea lā me nā keiki?
He mea maʻalahi loa ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā polokalamu i nā keiki no ka mea ʻaʻohe o lākou ʻōnaehana kānana (ʻo ia hoʻi.
No laila, mai kānalua i mua o lākou i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana iā lākou a me ko lākou hiki a i ʻole ʻoe iho, a i ʻole no ka kamaʻilio ʻana o kekahi makua i nā hewa o kekahi.
ʻO ka mea nui ʻaʻole mākou e haʻalele, ʻo ia ka paʻakikī o ke keiki i ka lohe a me ka nānā ʻana, i ko mākou wā liʻiliʻi ua lohe mākou i nā mea a lākou i manaʻo ʻole ai e hoʻolohe mai iā mākou a ua hoʻohālike mākou ʻaʻole lohe.
Inā pilikia ʻoe a me kāu keiki i ka: mimi i ka pō, makaʻu, makaʻu, pilikia i ka hoʻonaʻauao… etc.
Pono ʻoe e hoʻolālā i kona noʻonoʻo subconscious ma ka hāwanawana ʻana i kona pepeiao ma mua o kona hiamoe ʻana a i kona hiamoe ʻana
Hāwanawana i kona inoa a haʻi i nā ʻano āu e makemake ai iā ia ( mālie, naʻauao, makemake i ka waiū, aloha i ke kula, aloha nā mea a pau iā ia, ala maʻalahi a hele i ka lua…)
Me ka akahele noonoo ole e olelo i kekahi olelo ma ke ano o ka negation, e like me ka subconscious noonoo holoi i ka negation, e like me: (You are not fear) the subconscious mind will understand it (You are makau).
E hana hou i nā ʻōlelo maikaʻi no ʻekolu mau minuke a no 14 mau lā a ʻike ʻoe i nā hopena āu e ʻimi nei.