He aha nā mea huna i hōʻike ʻole ʻia e nā kāne?

ʻAʻole hōʻike ka hapa nui o nā kāne i ko lākou manaʻo i loko o ka wahine, akā makemake lākou e ʻike iā ia me ka ʻole o ka haʻi ʻana iā ia.
Wahi a kahi noiʻi ʻo Brazil, ʻo ka hōʻike ʻole ʻana o ke kāne i kona mau manaʻo a me kona mau manaʻo, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo makemake ʻo ia e mālama i nā mea huna a i ʻole ka hilinaʻi ʻole i kāna hoa. ʻO ka manaʻo o ke kanaka ʻaʻole pono e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kekahi mau mea i loko o kona manaʻo.
Ua hoʻohuli ʻo ia i kona manaʻo e ʻike ka wahine iā ia. A ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke koho i nā mea āpau, pono nā kāne e kāpae i kēia kapu, a wehe i ko lākou umauma i kā lākou wahine.
ʻEhiku mea huna ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne e haʻi

ʻO ka mua - uē ʻo ia e like me ka wahine
Ua hōʻoia ʻia kahi haʻawina ʻaʻole ʻae ke kāne iā ia iho e hoʻokokoke i kēia kumuhana i mua o ka wahine, akā makemake ʻo ia e ʻike ʻo ia ua uē nui ʻo ia me kona ʻike ʻole. Inā manaʻo ka wahine he nāwaliwali ka uē ʻana o ke kāne, a laila ua kuhihewa ʻo ia, no ka mea hiki i ke kāne ke hiki.
ʻO ka uē i mua ona e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika nui, a ʻo kēia uē ʻaʻole ka hopena o ka nāwaliwali o ke ʻano.
ʻO ka hiki i ke kāne ke uē i mua o ka wahine, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ke kanaka e like me ia.

ʻO ka lua - ua ʻeha ʻo ia ma mua
ʻAʻole makemake ke kāne e hōʻike i kona mau ʻeha ʻeha, akā makemake ʻo ia e ʻike ka wahine ua loaʻa paha ʻo ia i nā kūlana ʻeha.

Ua aloha paha ke kanaka me oe i ka wahine mamua ou; Ua ʻeha naʻe ʻo ia, no ka mea ua hōʻole ʻo ia iā ia a ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka mea āna e ʻimi nei iā ia. ʻAʻole kēia he kīnā, a pono ʻoe e ʻike me ka ʻole o kāna hōʻike ʻana.

ʻO ke kolu - makemake ʻo ia e hoʻolohe ʻoe iā ia
ʻAʻole wehe nui ka hapa nui o nā kāne i nā wahine, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio nui e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Akā, mai loko mai, makemake lākou e hoʻolohe ka wahine iā ia e like me kāna makemake e hoʻolohe iā ia. A ina i ike ka wahine ua wehe ae kana aikane e hoike aku i na mea ia ia, alaila, e hoolohe ka wahine ia ia, no ka mea, aole maa mau ke kane i ka nana aku, aka, ke manao nei oia he kuleana kana e hoolohe ia ia ma ke ano he kanaka. kane.

ʻO ka hā, makemakeʻo ia e hanaʻoe i ka mea e hauʻoli aiʻo ia.
Ke hoʻoholo ke kāne e hana i kekahi mea no ka pono o ka ʻohana, makemake ʻo ia e kū ka wahine ma kona ʻaoʻao, a kōkua iā ia e hoʻokō i nā mea e holomua ai kāna mau hoʻolālā a me kona makemake. Akā, hōʻole pinepineʻo ia e noi i ke kōkua mai ka wahine.

ʻO ka lima, makemake ʻo ia e ʻike ʻoe ua manaʻo ʻo ia he pupule ʻoe i ke aloha iā ia.
Nui nā kāne i manaʻo i kāna wahine he aloha iā ia. ʻO kēia ma muli o ka nui o nā kāne e hōʻike ʻole i ko lākou aloha i kā lākou wahine, akā i ka manawa like makemake ʻo ia e manaʻo ʻoe ua ʻike ʻoe i kona aloha me ka ʻole o kāna hōʻike ʻana.

ʻO ke ono, makemake ʻo ia e manaʻo ʻo ia wale nō kāu kāne
Makemake ke kanaka e manaʻo ʻo ia wale nō ke kanaka e kuʻi ai kou puʻuwai; ʻAʻole naʻe ʻo ia e nīnau, a i ka manawa like, makemake ʻo ia e ʻike e noʻonoʻo ʻoe iā ia pēlā, ʻoiai me ka nīnau ʻole iā ʻoe.

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ʻO Ryan Sheikh Mohammed