Zifukwa zisanu za kulephera kwamalingaliro

Ubwenzi wapamtima nthawi zonse umayenda kumverera ndi upscale ndi zodabwitsa zomverera, koma nthawi zambiri timafunsa kuti ndi zifukwa ziti za kulephera kwa ubale wachikondi? Ubale uliwonse ndi wokongola pachiyambi ndipo utaphimbidwa ndi matanthauzo onse a chisangalalo, koma posakhalitsa mphwayi ndi kusagwirizana kumayamba patatha miyezi ingapo ndipo chikondi chimatha ndi kulephera kwamaganizo ndi kulephera kungabwerezedwe ndi zochitika zachiwiri, kapena mwina zambiri.

Ubwenzi wapamtima sutsatira mfundo zokhazikika kapena kugwetsa filimu yachikondi paubwenzi weniweni.
Pali malingaliro olakwika angapo omwe amachititsa kuti izi zitheke, kuphatikizapo:

1- Ubwezi wopambana sikutanthauza kuti chikondi chomwe munayamba nacho chipitilire kukhala champhamvu
Ubale wamalingaliro umadutsa magawo angapo, kuyambira ndi kukopa kwa ena, magawo ozama komanso omveka, ndi chikhulupiriro cha mmodzi wa maphwando kuti kulephera kwa makhalidwe ena achikondi sikukutanthauza kutaya kwa chikondi, ndi kupitiriza kwa mphamvu. za chikhalidwe chachikondi chomwe chinayambira paubwenzi ndizosamveka, komanso sizikutanthauza kuti alibe khalidwe lachikondi, koma ziyenera onse awiri ayenera kumvetsetsa chitukuko cha chiyanjano kuchokera ku gawo lina ndikusintha ndikuchita ndi magawo omwe akubwera.

2- Kukhala ndi ubale wabwino sikutanthauza kuti winayo samuphwanya kapena kutsutsana naye
Kusinthana kwa zokambirana, kukambirana ndi kusiyana maganizo sikukutanthauza kusagwirizana ndi kulephera kwa chiyanjano, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti onse awiri afotokoze maganizo awo ndikuphunzira pamene mawu oti "ayi" akunenedwa popanda kuchita manyazi ndi manyazi, koma nkhaniyo ili mu njira yokambitsirana ndi kasamalidwe ka zokambirana pakati pa maphwando awiriwa, omwe ayenera kudziwika ndi luso, komanso Kuzindikira kuti nthawi zina kuchotsera sikuchepetsa mtengo wa gulu lina, makamaka ngati walakwitsa.

3- Ubale wopambana sikutanthauza kuti mbali imodzi itenge khalidwe la mzake
Chikhulupiriro chakuti ubale wopambana umakhala mu kugwirizana kwathunthu kwa malingaliro a magulu awiriwa, ndipo kusintha chimodzi mwa maphwando kuti chigwirizane ndi chikhalidwe chake ndi lingaliro lopanda nzeru chifukwa munthu aliyense ali ndi chikhalidwe chapadera ndi moyo wake, kubadwanso kwina kwa maphwando ku umunthu wa winayo si chifukwa chopewera kulephera kwa ubale, ndikuyesera kukakamiza masomphenya apadera kumayambitsa mapeto ake Chowonadi ndi chakuti kulimbikira kwake kumakhala kusiyana komwe kumapereka chisangalalo cha chidwi ndi kuzindikira kwa gulu lina.

4- Ubale wopambana sutanthauza kuti onse awiri alibe zolakwika
Chowonadi china chiyenera kuzindikirika, chomwe chiri chakuti palibe amene alibe chilema, koma pali zolakwika zosavuta zomwe zingathe kuyanjana nazo ndikuzoloŵera, ndipo ndizoyenera chikhalidwe cha gulu lina ndipo sizingawononge ubale, komanso zimatero. sizikutanthauza kuti mbali ziwirizo alibe chilema, ndipo m`pofunika kunyalanyaza makhalidwe ena ndi zofooka kuti mwina Zimapezeka pakati pa anthu awiri okondana, makamaka kumayambiriro kwa ubale, koma pokhapokha ngati sichidutsa malire ovomerezeka achilengedwe ndi sichimayambitsa mavuto amtundu uliwonse ndi mawonekedwe kwa aliyense wa iwo, ndipo yang'anani pa zabwino zomwe zingasiyanitse mnzanuyo ndi ena.

5- Ubale wopambana sugwirizana ndi lamulo la wopambana ndi wolephera:
Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi makhalidwe ake, khalidwe, umunthu wodziimira yekha ndi kalembedwe.Kuganiza kolakwika kuti chimodzi mwa magulu awiriwa ndi olamulira komanso olamulira pansi pa ndondomeko ya chidwi kumabweretsa kukhumudwa kwa wina ndi mzake ndikudetsa ubale. pakati pawo ndi kulephera kwake kotsimikizika.

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Katswiri wa Psychology

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed