Kodi mumalimbitsa bwanji kudzidalira kwanu?

 umunthu kuti ndi chidaliro m'mapazi ake, amene akugwedeza malo pansi pa mapazi ake, ndipo aliyense kutembenukira kwa admirers ake, iye ndi mfumukazi yochokera kwa Mulungu Wamphamvuyonse kapena ndi chifukwa cha maphunziro mosalekeza, ife tonse kupita kuti amphamvu palokha umunthu, ndipo mwina Chodziwika kwambiri chomwe chimatsogolera kuti munthu akwaniritse zolinga zake ndi umunthu wake wamphamvu komanso kudzidalira Munthu akakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iye yekha ndi luso lake, mosakayikira adzafika zomwe akufuna ngakhale pakapita nthawi, ndipo nthawi zambiri kutaya chidaliro kumathamanga kwambiri. kuposa kuchipezanso, ndiye kodi kudzidalira kumatanthauza chiyani? Nanga n’chiyani chimachititsa kuti chiwonongeke? Kodi angatengedwenso bwanji?

Kudzidalira kumatanthauzidwa ngati kudzimva kwa munthu payekha komanso kufunika kwake, kumasulira kumverera uku mumayendedwe ake, zochita zake, ndi mawu ake kuwonjezera pa njira yake yochitira zinthu ndi ena, pamene kudzidalira kwake kuli kwakukulu, izi zidzawonetsedwa khalidwe lake mwachibadwa kwambiri ndi iwo omwe ali pafupi naye ndi kusayanjanitsika kwake ndi chinachake; Chifukwa amadziwa komwe angapite komanso momwe angapitire, pamene kupanda nzeru kumeneku kumamupangitsa kumva kuti akuonedwa ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi nkhawa komanso mantha.

Kodi n’chiyani chimayambitsa kusadzidalira?

Kupereka zinthu zazikulu kuposa kukula kwawo ndi Tweelha.

Nthawi zonse mumadzimva kuti anthu omwe akuzungulirani akukuyang'anani ndikuwunika momwe mukuyenda.

Kulephera kukumana ndi ena, makamaka pamene mukumva mantha ndi nkhawa pazochitika zanu zilizonse.

Kudzimva kosalekeza kuti ndinu munthu wofooka ndipo mumatsatira ena, monga kulephera kupanga chosankha pa zinthu zosavuta kwambiri.

Tsoka ilo, kumverera kwa zifukwa zonsezi ndi zina zambiri zimasandulika kukhala zenizeni, kumasuliridwa kukhala chenicheni chotchedwa kusadzidalira, ndipo zifukwa izi zimaperekedwa chifukwa cha kulephera pa phunziro linalake monga kuphunzira kapena ntchito ndi kukhudzana wotsatira. kudzudzulidwa koopsa ndi kopweteka ndi achibale ndi abwenzi, kupatulapo kudzifananiza nokha ndi ena ochokera Kumbali za luso ndi mwayi, kuwonjezera pa kusadalira ena pazinthu zosavuta monga makolo, mwachitsanzo, osakupatsani mwayi wotsimikizira. nokha, zonsezi zimabweretsa kutaya kudzidalira.

Chofunikira kwambiri ndikukulitsa kudzidalira kwanu, ndiye bwanji?

Lero tikusonyezeni njira zofunika kwambiri zolimbikitsira kudzidalira.

Choyamba, muyenera kudzitamandira nthawi zonse, chifukwa munthu aliyense padziko lapansi ali ndi zinthu zabwino zomwe zimamusiyanitsa ndi ena, yang'anani mbali izi ndikupezerapo mwayi m'njira yoyenera kuti mukhale munthu wapadera, koma muyenera kukhala. samalani kuti musafike podzikuza n’kudzipanga kukhala munthu wamba komanso wamba.

Nthawi zonse dzisamale, makamaka maonekedwe ako.” Nthawi zambiri, munthu akakhala wokongola komanso waudongo, kaya ndi kavalidwe kapena katsitsi, amakhala womasuka komanso wokhutira mumtima, ndipo simufunika zinthu zovuta kuti muwoneke wokongola, chifukwa kukongola kuli mkati. kuphweka.

Yesani kupanga zibwenzi zapadera, chifukwa zimakuthandizani kuti mukhale osakanikirana, kuphunzira za malingaliro osiyanasiyana, ndikuchita nawo zokambirana zothandiza zomwe zimakweza mulingo wanu wamakambirano ndi kuthekera kwanu kocheza ndi anthu ambiri.

Chitani zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe mumakonda, monga masewera, mwachitsanzo, kuwonjezera pa kukhala wathanzi komanso wopindulitsa kwa thupi lanu, zimathandizanso kuchotsa mphamvu zoyipa mkati mwanu. Nthawi zonse yesani zinthu zatsopano ndi zinthu, kupha mwachizolowezi ndikuchotsa kukongola kwa zinthu zobisika mkati.