Nekuda kwekuda kwemumwe wake basa, vana, shamwari, kana mhuri pamusoro pake, kuwedzera pakutaura kwake kana kuita chimwe chinhu chinoderedza kukosha kwemumwe wake, kunyanya kana izvi zviri pamberi pevana kana mhuri, pamusoro pe anoramba achingotarisa kodzero dzake chete, uye kuva nehanya kwake nadzo.Paanenge achifuratira kodzero nezvido zvemumwe munhu, achizviregeredza, achizvideredza kwaari, uye achimuita kuti anzwe akaderera uye akaderera.

Muzvinhu zvokunyama kana kuti zvetsika, kana kuti mune chaanomupa chenguva yake nokuda kwedonzo rokugutsa zvinodikanwa zvake, uye kuzvinyudza amene, kana kuti zvose zviri zviviri, mukushanda kutarisana nedzvinyiriro yokunyama uye kusvitsa zvinodikanwa zvomusha navana; Kuregeredza chinhu chose chinogona kumutsa manzwiro pasina kufunga kwavo; Izvo zvinoita kuti mukaha pakati pavo uwedzere zvishoma nezvishoma, uye hukama hwepedyo pakati pavo hunonyangarika, kana kushanduka kuita muitirowo zvawo, kana basa rakatemerwa.

Murume kana mudzimai anongotarisa kodzero dzake nezvido zvake, uye okanganwa mumwe wake, zvaanoda, uye zvaanoda.Kudzokorora mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kunoguma nokurambana kana kuparadzana mupfungwa.

Uku kuda vamwe pamusoro pemudiwa wehupenyu, uye ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero zvakakosha zvekurambana mupfungwa, sekuti murume anofarira basa rake, mhuri, hama neshamwari pane mukadzi wake, kana mukadzi achida basa rake, vana, mhuri, uye shamwari pamusoro pomurume; Zvinoita kuti mumwe wacho anzwe asina kukosha.

Kushandura hukama hwewanano kuita tsika, basa, kana kuregera kwechisungo.

Kunyima chimwe chezvinhu zvinoguma nokurambana kwemirangariro, kungava kuomera, umo murume anonyima mudzimai wake mari yaanoda, kana kuti kuomera kwetsika, umo mamwe mapato anoregeredza zvinodikanwa zvomumwe mubato nokuda kwokunzwa nengwariro. Muchiitiko chekuomera kune rimwe remapato, hukama hwerudo pakati pavo hunotanga kuoma, uye vanoparadzana kubva kune mumwe nemumwe mupfungwa.

Kusakwanisa kwomurume kutaura zviri mukati make nokutaura; Zvinoenderana nemaitiro emurume wepfungwa nemagariro, anogara achifarira zviito kupfuura mazwi, kusiyana nemukadzi, uyo anowanzo kurondedzera zvakadzama.

Kufinhwa uye kusakendenga kune zviratidzo zvingava nyore kukunda. Kana zvikaonekwa nyaya yacho isati yakura; Kubhowekana kunotanga nekunyarara, introversion, kusateerera kune mumwe zvakanyatsonaka, kushanduka kwemafungiro, uye kutya, uye pakupedzisira mumwe nemumwe anosarudza nzira yakasiyana kune imwe nzira. Pano, kuwirirana kunova kudikanwa nokukurumidza.