Ungasuka njani emntwini othandana naye?

Akukho mntu ufuna ukuzikhwebula kumntu amthandayo nathandana naye, kodwa uxinezeleko ngokwasengqondweni (psychological pressure) olubangelwa lolu thando luyakutyhalela ekubeni uzinyanzele ukuba uhambe, mhlawumbi nempatho yelinye iqela kuwe iyakutyhalela ukuba uyenze loo nto, kodwa ke. uvakalelwa kukuba kufana nokususa ioksijini kuwe yaye kwangaxeshanye unyanzeleke ukuba wenze esi sigqibo, unokuzinceda njani ukuba umke emntwini omthandayo?

Wahlonele amathuba 

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo sokwahlula, uveze amathuba amaninzi kunye nezivumelwano ezingazange zisebenze, kodwa eneneni, xa ubaxa ekuvezeni amathuba, uzibonakalisa ngenxa yokoyika ukwahlukana nangethemba lokuphucula oko kutshatyalaliswayo. , kodwa isiphumo sisoloko sichasana namabhongo akho, ke zihloniphe kwaye ukhuphe amathuba okunika amathuba xa sele engenamsebenzi.

tshintsha inkumbulo yakho

Guqula yonke into ekwenza umlangazelele, njengoko ingqondo yakho iya kusabela kutshintsho oluphambi kwentliziyo yakho. Umzekelo: njengokutshintsha ubume begama lakhe kwifowuni ephathwayo.

yiba lukhuni 

Bonisa ukuqina nakweyona meko yakho ibuthathaka, njengoko oku kuzenza uqiniseke ukuba iyakwazi ukoyisa le ngxaki kwaye uhlalisane nayo ngendlela eyomeleleyo.

sukulinda 

Ukulinda kwakho yonke imihla impendulo yalo mntu malunga nokuhamba kwakho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo eyenza buthathaka iinjongo zakho kwaye ikwenze ube sesichengeni sokuwa ngokwasengqondweni umhla nezolo.

Eminye imixholo: 

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