Izinto ekufuneka uzazi phambi kokuba utshate
Izinto ekufuneka uzazi phambi kokuba utshate
Ixesha lokutshintsha ukusuka ekuthembiseni ukuya emtshatweni lithathwa njengento eyoyikisayo kubo bobabini, njengoko ingaziwa kwaye umntu woyika yonke into angayaziyo.Ukuhlalisana phakathi kwabantu ababini bemvelo kunye nemikhwa ayiyonto elula, kodwa yinto elula. inqanaba elilula emva kokuba amaqela amabini aqala ukuqhelana, kodwa eli nqanaba liphumelele okanye liphumelele, ngoko ke ziziphi iimpawu omele uzazi ngaphambi komtshato?
Iimpawu zihlala zifana
Ungatshati nomntu ngethemba lokuba indalo engakufanelanga ingatshintsha emva komtshato, okanye uya kuba nefuthe kuye, kuba lo ngumthetho apho uninzi lusilela.
Ukuncama akuncedi nganto
Ukuba uziva ngaphambi komtshato ukuba kufuneka uncame amaxesha amaninzi malunga nezinto ezililungelo lakho, yeka ke loo nto kuba emva komtshato kuya kufuneka uncame zonke iimfuno zakho mihla le, ngaphandle kokuba ube netyala ngaloo nto.
intlonipho
Ukuhlonelana nokuthembana phakathi kwamaqabane omabini kugqalwa njengesona siseko sinamandla kulwalamano lomtshato oluphumelelayo.
ubuchule
Umyeni ochubekileyo uyintsikelelo ebomini bakho, ukuba indoda ithetha ngobuchule, loo nto ibonisa ukuba ingumntu onovelwano, yaye oku kubaluleke gqitha kubomi bomtshato.
Isidiliya
Musa ukungayinaki impawu yobubi, ukuba bukhona, njengoko buyonakalisa ubomi, ngokungafaniyo nesisa, esiphelisa izinto ezininzi ezimbi.
ubunyani
Kufuneka ube nengqiqo emva komtshato, kuba ukungxamela ukuthanda emva kwexesha lomtshato kuncipha, kwaye kusekho uthando lolunye uhlobo, olobuhlobo, intlonipho kunye nokuhlala kakuhle.
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