Fumana ezona zizathu zokuba ubudlelwane bothando lusilele

Ubudlelwane kunye nothando zihlala zihamba iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo eziphakamileyo kunye nezimangalisayo, ngaphandle kokuba uxhulumaniso lungenalo ukucinga kwangaphambili okanye ngexesha elingalunganga okanye xa ukhetho lungalunganga, luba yimbangela ethe ngqo kunye neqhubekayo yezifo zengqondo ezifana nokudandatheka kunye nokuxhalaba.

Ke ngoko, ndiza kuveza ngeli nqaku ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ezikhokelela ekungaphumelelini kobudlelwane bothando:

Izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokungaphumeleli kobudlelwane bothando:

1. Ingxaki inokuthi intombazana ayizazi iimpawu zobuntu bayo kwaye ngoko ayiyazi impawu enokuthi ihambelane nayo, okanye ingaba ngumnqweno wayo wokudibanisa ngokukhawuleza (ngaphambi kokuba iphose uloliwe), njengoko bethetha, kwaye ngaloo ndlela intombazana iyanyanzeleka ukuba yamkele iminyinyiva emininzi ngaphandle kokuthetheleleka.
2. Isizathu sokungaphumeleli kombutho sisenokuba kukungafani ngokwasengqondweni okanye ngokwenkcubeko okanye utyekelo kunye neminqweno kunye nokungakwazi ukuvumelana ukuze kufikelelwe kwisivumelwano esanelisa amaqela omabini.
3. Utshintsho: Ulwalamano ngalunye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lunamandla kangakanani, lufuna ukuphuhliswa rhoqo kunye nokutshintsha kwezinto ezithile zesiqhelo, kodwa olu tshintsho lukwimeko eyanelisayo kuwe kunye neqabane lakho.

4. Unxibelelwano kunye nencoko: Ingxoxo eqhubekayo kunye nokuthetha phakathi kwamaqela amabini obudlelwane kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kubalulekile ekuqhubekeni kobudlelwane, ukuba akukho nxibelelwano phakathi kwenu, ngamnye wenu uya kufunda njani malunga neengxaki kunye neemfihlelo zomnye!

5. Ithuba lesibini: Ngamanye amaxesha ukusuka ekuthandweni kothando kunye nokunamathela kwelinye lamaqela kwelinye, nangona iimpazamo zakhe, umnika ithuba lesibini lokuziphucula kwaye alungise iimpazamo zakhe, kodwa oku akusoloko kusebenza, ukuba umntu atshintshe inxalenye yakhe. ukuziphatha awayeqhele ukwenza ixesha elide kunzima kakhulu, kungathatha ixesha elide kwaye isenokungasebenzi Kwakhona, musa ukunika umntu ithuba lesibini xa uqinisekile ukuba baya kuqhubeka iimpazamo zabo ngakuwe.

ekugqibeleniKaloku wonke umntu unesinye isiqingatha sakhe, kwaye uThixo udale wonke umntu wadalela esinye isiqingatha sakhe esimgqibezelayo nesifumana intuthuzelo kuye.Ungaqhubeki kubudlelwane apho ungafumani ntuthuzelo nolonwabo ngenxa yokoyika. Kodwa ke, uya kukhokelela ekulungiseleleni kwakho, oko uThixo akumiseleyo, kwaye uya kufumana intuthuzelo nolonwabo lwakho.