Eyona ndlela inamandla yokubulisa kukuwola ngokupheleleyo apho ubeka iingalo zakho kufutshane nomnye umntu kwaye uwole omnye komnye. Oku kunxulunyaniswa nokuncamisa nokubamba, ukumbambazela nokuncuma kunye nokujongana kakhulu kwamehlo ngamanye amaxesha nokukhala.

Ukutyhala okanye ukumbambazela omnye umntu egxalabeni okanye emqolo kubaxelela ukuba lixesha lokuyeka ukuwola.

Kukho iiyantlukwano ezininzi ekubambeni kunye nokuwola, kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lobudlelwane, ubude bexesha oye wambona omnye umntu, izithethe zenkcubeko kunye nokuba indawo leyo isesidlangalaleni okanye yabucala.