Iimpawu ezili-XNUMX amadoda azithiyileyo kwabasetyhini
Eyona nto ithandwa yindoda emfazini bubufazi bakhe, kwaye icaphukela yonke into ehluthayo lobu mfazi.
1- Umfazi yindoda engayihoyiyo inkangeleko yakhe, umzimba wakhe okanye indima yakhe njengomama okanye umfazi wekhaya.
2- Umfazi othetha kakhulu, ongayeki ukuthetha ngayo yonke into, nokuba ayimkhathazi! Kwaye ungaze umamele izimvo zabanye abantu. Yiyiphi, nangona umthwele ixesha elifutshane njengomsebenzi osebenza naye okanye umhlobo kunokwenzeka, kodwa ukumthwala njengomfazi ebomini kubhekwa njengento engenakwenzeka kumntu.
3-Okwesithathu ngumfazi oxokayo noqhatha kakhulu, ongaziwayo ukunyaniseka kwakhe kubuxoki bakhe.
I-4- Umntu ongenalwazi, kwaye apha asithethi umfazi ongafundile, kodwa ngumfazi ongenalwazi malunga neziganeko ezimngqongileyo, ongenalo uluvo kwaye akakwazi ukuxoxwa okanye ukuthetha naye.
5- Uzikhukhumezile okanye ozicingelayo, ohlala ecinga ukuba ungoyena ubalaseleyo kuyo yonke into kwaye oku kubonakala kwindlela yakhe yokuphatha abo bakufutshane naye, ngoko uphezulu kwaye uyacaphukisa.
6- Ubukhali! Ngumfazi osoloko eyingcungcuthekisa indoda yakhe aze ayibangele iintloni nokuhlaziswa phambi kwabantu bonke.
7- U-Al-Nakdah, ummangali ohlala ekhala ojika ubomi bomyeni nabantwana bakhe esihogweni.
8- Ukungcola nokungahoywa kucoceko lwakhe lobuqu, abanye abasoloko behlukanisiwe nalo ngenxa yokungabi navumba elimnandi, akakuhoyanga ukuxukuxa amazinyo, okanye ukuhlamba ixesha elide.
9-Ukwenza iingxaki kunye nabo bamngqongileyo, ngokuthi "bathiwa kwaye bathetha", nokuthetha ngezinto ezingamkhathaleliyo.
Kwaye ngoku, sithandwa sam, ukuba sigqibile ukubala ezi mpawu ezimbi, ngaba ufumana nayiphi na kuzo kuwe, ukuba impendulo ngu-ewe, ke qaphela, ezi mpawu zingalahlekelwa kuwe ngokukhawuleza, uthando lobomi bakho !!!!