Indlela yakho emfutshane eya kubudlelwane obuphumelelayo bothando

Kukho ezinye izenzo ezinokomeleza ubudlelwane bakho beemvakalelo kwaye utshintshe imilo yayo kwaye ubhengeze ubukho bayo, kwaye ubonise ukuba usendleleni elungileyo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba uphila ibali lothando lokwenyani kunye nolothando, kwaye inokuphumelela kwaye isithsaba. uthethathethwano okanye ukuqhubeka kombutho ngonaphakade.

Namhlanje, ku-Anna Salwa, sinikezela ngeengcebiso ezine ezinokukunceda ukuqinisa ubudlelwane kunye neqabane lakho, ngokutsho kwapapashwa yiwebhusayithi yaseMelika ethi "Healthy Woman".

1- Ukwazi ukuguqula iimvakalelo zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho zibe ngamagama afanelekileyo

Unxibelelwano sesinye sezakhono ezigcina ubudlelwane bothando, ngoko ke kufuneka ukwazi ukuguqula iimvakalelo zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho zibe ngamagama afanelekileyo, kwaye ukhumbule kakuhle ukuba umphulaphuli olungileyo unqabile kunesithethi esihle, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ukumamela omnye komnye kuya komeleza. ubudlelwane bothando.

2- Ukubonakalisa uthando kufuneka kube kokubini izenzo kunye namazwi

Uthando sisenzo kungekhona nje amazwi, kwaye ukubonakaliswa kothando kufuneka kube ngokwenza kunye nokuthetha kunye, kwaye ungathembeli ukuba omnye umntu uyazazi iimvakalelo zakhe okanye ufunde iingcamango zakhe, kwaye kufuneka kubekho isithuba phakathi kwamaqela amabini ukuvakalisa usizi kunye nokukhathazeka. iimvakalelo ezimbi ngamaxesha xa elinye icala liziva libuthathaka kwaye lilahlekile.Oku kunika ubudlelwane bubengezelelekileyo obukhethekileyo kwaye buyakwazi ukujongana nobunzima kunye neendlela zobomi.

I-3- Ukwangiwa okufudumeleyo kuthwala iimpawu ezicacileyo kunye nezinzulu zothando lokwenene

 Ukwamkelwa ngokufudumeleyo kuthwala eyona miqondiso icacileyo nenzulu yothando lokwenyani, njengoko inika ubomi ubuhle obahlukileyo, kwaye ikwenza uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhuselekile, nto leyo umzimba uyiguqulela ngohlobo lomsebenzi, amandla kunye nethemba ngenxa yokuba ineziphumo ezithile zomzimba kwimpilo yakho. umzimba okuncedayo ukususa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kunye neengcinga.

4- Kufuneka nihloniphe amalungelo omnye nomnye

Uluhlu lweengxaki ezincinci ekuhambeni kwexesha lunokubangela ukungaphumeleli kobudlelwane bakho bomzwelo, ngenxa yezinye iintetho okanye izenzo ezingenaxanduva ezikhutshwe ngaphandle kokuqonda ngokwaneleyo kunye neengcamango, okanye mhlawumbi iinjongo zakho zilungile kwisenzo sobudenge, ngoko kufuneka kubekho indawo yentlonipho kunye nokuthembana phakathi kwamaqela amabini Ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho bothando, kufuneka uhloniphe amalungelo kunye nezikhundla ezahlukeneyo.