Uziphatha njani nomntu okuthandayo?
Uziphatha njani nomntu okuthandayo?
Uziphatha njani nomntu okuthandayo?
zihloniphe iimvakalelo zakhe
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile ukuphendula iimvakalelo zabalandeli bakho okanye ukufunda indlela yokujongana nomntu ondithandayo kukuhlonipha ezo mvakalelo nokuba zithini na kwaye uzive unombulelo kunye nombulelo kuloo mntu, ekugqibeleni balungile kwaye iimvakalelo ezintle.
mnike ithuba
Kufuneka unike umntu ithuba lokucinga ngeemvakalelo zakhe kakuhle nokulinganisa imilinganiselo yakhe yexesha elizayo kuye, ukongezelela ekuvavanyeni iimvakalelo zobuqu kunye nokuzamkela kwakhe.
Ukuhambelana
Ukumisela ubungakanani bokuhambelana nelinye iqela, ngaloo ndlela nitshintshiselana ngeemvakalelo phakathi kwenu ngendlela entle nechanekileyo, ukuze ubudlelwane bube lulwalamano oluchanekileyo nolulungelelanisiweyo kamva.
Kule meko, kufuneka ube nomonde kunye nomonde kwaye uthathe ixesha lokukwazi ukwazi inyaniso yeemvakalelo zangaphakathi ukuze ungaziva uthukile okanye umangaliswe okanye ugqithise kolu budlelwane ngaphandle kokucinga okunengqiqo kunye nokuqiqa.
ziqinisekise ngokwakho
Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uzilungiselele lo mbandela, uwucinge kakuhle, kwaye uxelele umntu okuthandayo ngaphandle kweentloni okanye ubuntununtunu, ukuze angangxami kubudlelwane kube kanye kwaye achithe iimvakalelo zakhe ngaphambi kokuqinisekisa ubunyani. ngeemvakalelo zeqabane lakhe.
Ukujongana nemiqobo
Kufuneka uqonde into yokuba kukho imiqobo enokuthi idibane nobudlelwane ekuqaleni kwayo kunye nakuzo zonke izigaba zayo, kodwa le miqobo iyasuswa kwaye isonjululwe bubuhlobo kunye nokuqonda phakathi kwakho.
Imiqobo ayithethi isiphene kwiimvakalelo okanye ithintele ukuqhubeka kobudlelwane, kwaye le miqobo kufuneka ijongwe ngokukhula kunye nokucinga ukugcina intlonipho phakathi kwenu.
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