Ujongana njani nendoda yakho ikuqhatha?

Into ephambanisa umntu obhinqileyo kwaye imphambanise kubukho bomnye umfazi ebomini bomyeni wakhe, eyonanto imphambanisayo imenze enze into engazi kwaye usoloko ecela idivorce ngoko nangoko, yimpazamo ke le, kufuneka Ulumke kwaye uzolile kwaye umamele iingcebiso zabantu abaninzi abanengqiqo Kwabo bakungqongileyo, kwaye siya kukunceda, ndinguSalwa, ekuthatheni ingcebiso:

I-1- Akufanele uthathe nayiphi na inyathelo ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho lokungcatsha alubonakali ipesenti ze-XNUMX.

2- Ukuba uqinisekile ngokukungcatsha kwakhe, kufuneka ulubambe ulwimi lwakho lungathethi namntu uzame ukumqeqesha ngendlela ebuyisela isidima sakho.

3- Mmangalele ekululekeni, oko kumenze wangcatshayo, nantsi into emenza abe neentloni ngaye.

4-Xa enentloni ngaye, uya kuba nethuba lokumenza ukuba arhoxe ekungcatshweni kwakhe, ke usebenzise oko ngobuchule.

5- Kungokwemvelo ukuba ungaphindi uthembele kuye okwexeshana, nokuba unokufunga ukuba uya kuyirhoxisa impazamo.

6- Mjonge ekude ngaphandle kokuziva uqinisekisa intliziyo yakho kuye

7- Buyisela umdla wakho kuye kwaye ugcwalise zonke izikhewu, kwaye i-whim yakhe iya kuba yinto edlulileyo enokuba sisizathu sokuvuselela uthando kwakhona.

8 Kodwa ukuba lowo uphendula ngokugonyamela, waqonda ukuba akonanga nto, uze ubhenele kwesinye sezilumko kwakowenu.

9- Ukuba uphinda impazamo kwakhona okanye amaxesha amaninzi, ke lo ngumkhwa ongenasisombululo ngaphandle koqhawulo-mtshato lwangempela okanye uqhawulo-mtshato ngokwasengqondweni ngaphakathi kwekhaya ekwabelwana ngalo.