Ndingenza njani Ngaba ujongana nabantu abangalunganga emsebenzini?

Akukho mntu ukhetha imekobume yentlalo emngqongileyo, kwaye ikamva lidla ngokusibeka kwiimeko ezisinyanzela ukuba siziqhelanise nabantu esijongene nabo ngobunzima nabasenokuba ngowona mthombo uphambili wokunxunguphala kuthi.

Musa ukungena kwiingxoxo kunye nabo 

Oko kukuthi, musa ukuphikisana nabantu abagxekayo, njengoko aba bantu ngokuqhelekileyo banezimvo eziqinileyo abanamathela kuzo ukuba unesikhalazo okanye isikhalazo, ungathethi phambi komntu ogxekayo, kwaye usoloko ukhetha izihloko ezingadingi ngxoxo okanye izigqibo, ukuze aphephe ukuva iimbono zakhe ezimbi.

uvelwano nabo

Abantu abagxekayo banokuzuza ngakumbi kuvelwano kunamacebiso, amacebiso, okanye izicombululo.Ngokubanceda baveze iimvakalelo zabo, ubangela ukuba izicombululo zivele ngokuzenzekelayo.

Nika isandla sokunceda

Abanye abantu bahlala bencwina njengoluhlobo lokucela uncedo kwabanye, kwaye basenokungayazi bona, ngoko ke banike uncedo xa usiva uluhlu lwezikhalazo zabo.

Cwangcisa izihloko kwangaphambili

Ekubeni usebenzisana naye yonke imihla njengomntu osebenza naye, kufuneka uzame ukukhetha imixholo emininzi oza kuthetha naye ngayo. Ke qiniseka ukuba ukhetha izihloko olawula wedwa kwaye uvale indlela.

Namathela kwizihloko ezilula kwincoko yakho kunye nabo

Hlala kude kuwo nawuphi na umbuzo malunga nempumelelo yakhe emsebenzini wakhe kwaye ngembuyekezo ungaphenduli nawuphi na umbuzo akubuza wona ngalo mba kwaye uzame ukuphakamisa izihloko ezitsha nezilula ngokubanzi kunye naye, okanye naziphi na izinto ezingahambelani nomsebenzi okanye yakho. iinjongo zexesha elizayo.

Ungawahoyi amagqabaza angakhiyo

Enye indlela yokunceda umntu ogxekayo aqonde ukungakhathali kwakhe kukutsiba amagqabaza akhe, okanye ngokulula nje uphendule ngokuthi “kulungile” ngaphandle kokunikela ingqalelo kugqabaza. uluvo oluhle.

Qiniseka ukuba unomntu ongaphezulu komnye

Ukuba wanelisekile ngokuba wedwa naba bantu, onke amandla angalunganga aya kujoliswa kwaye abhekiswe kuwe ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi, akukho mfuneko yokuthwala konke oku kungalunganga okukujikelezileyo wedwa, kwaye ke ngoko unokubonelela ngcono. uncedo.

Ingcaphephe yenkuthazo uJim Rohan uthi, “Usisimbuku sabantu ochitha ixesha elininzi nabo,” ngoko kufuneka ulumke ngakumbi ekuqhubaneni nabo ukuze uzikhusele kwimpembelelo yabo kuwe.

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