Ujongana njani nomntu othanda amathuba?

Usomathuba ngumntu onikezela ngokuziphatha kwakhe kunye nomsebenzi wakhe wentlalo ukuze afikelele usukelo olufezekisa izilangazelelo zakhe, kwaye ukwabonisa ububele obukhulu kunye nentlonipho ukusa kwinqanaba elenza simthembe ... Zeziphi iindlela ezilungileyo zokujongana nosomathuba ubuntu?

yibanobubele 

Umntu osebenzisa ithuba ngoyena mntu unobubele xa kufikelelwa kumdla wakhe wobuqu, ngoko musa ukumphatha ngokungathi uyayazi into ayifunayo, kodwa mphathe ngobubele obufanayo.

qiniseka 

Umgaqo womntu osebenzisa amathuba othanda amathuba kukuba “isiphelo siyayithethelela indlela.” Usenokukubaxa indlela akuphethe ngayo aze asebenzise iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo ukuze umthembe, ngoko lumka kwaye uzikhusele kwinkohliso yakhe.

 Jonga ukuziphatha kwakhe 

Uyincomo ebusweni, kodwa unokukwenzakalisa emva kwakho, ngoko jonga izenzo zakhe kwaye ujonge iimbono zabanye abahlobene naye, njengoko bebonisa oko akwenzayo ngaphandle kolwazi lwakho.

Musa ukwabelana ngayo nomntu 

Eyona nto ibonwa ngumntu osebenzisa ithuba yingxwabangxwaba ephakathi kwabantu, lumka ungangeni kulo mgibe.

Eminye imixholo:

Ujongana njani nonyokozala onomona?

Yintoni eyenza umntwana wakho abe ngumntu ozingcayo?

Uhlangabezana njani nabalinganiswa abangaqondakaliyo?

Kunini abantu besithi ukumgangatho ophezulu?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ongenangqondo?

Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka

Uwuphepha njani umsindo wendoda enomona?

Xa abantu bekhobokisa kuwe baze banamathele kuwe?