Uqhubana njani nomntu ongakuxabisiyo?

Enye yezona meko zinzima zokungabikho kokusesikweni umntu abhenceka kuyo luthando lwakhe, ukupha nokubingelela kumntu ongamxabisiyo, ngoko uzifumana engakwazi ukutshitshisa oko akunikelayo kwaye kwangaxeshanye akakwazi ukunyamezela ukunqongophala. yoxabiso ajongene nayo.. Umntu unokuqhubana njani nomntu ongamxabisiyo?

Ukuzithemba 

Zithembe ukuze ufumane ukuxatyiswa ngomnye umntu.Uthando lwakho nentlonipho yakho kuwe ibonakala kwizenzo zabanye kunye nawe.Ukungaxabisi abanye ngezinto ozenzayo kusenokuba sisiphumo sokungazithembi kwakho kunye nokungazithembi kwakho. Ukubonisa ngokugqithisileyo abanye ngaphezu koko uzinika kona.

Ukuba kuqatshelwe 

Xa uqhubela phambili kakhulu, iba yinto eqhelekileyo phambi komnye umntu kwaye ikuthathe njengelinye lamalungelo akhe phezu kwakho, yenze lula kancinci ukuze azive ngathi kukho into etshintshileyo, ukuze utsale ingqalelo yakhe kwinto oyenzayo. kuye, kodwa ngendlela engathanga ngqo.

thetha 

Ukuba ukutsalela ingqalelo engangqalanga akusebenzi, tsalela ingqalelo ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ngendlela yobuhlobo neyobulali evakalisa umnqweno wakho wothando lwakho loxabiso nemfuneko yokunikela ingqalelo omnye komnye.

Musa ukuxolela kakhulu 

Abo baxolela kakhulu ngeendleko zabo kunye nemithambo-luvo yabo, kufika imini yokukruquka apho bengenakunyamezela ukuva nasiphi na isizathu kwaye abanakuxolela ukuthotywa okulula, ngoko musa ukuxolela ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye uhloniphe amalungelo akho ukuze ungabikho. umntu olahlekileyo ekuqaleni nasekupheleni.

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