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Unokuhlukana njani nomntu osondelelene naye?

Unokuhlukana njani nomntu osondelelene naye?

Unokuhlukana njani nomntu osondelelene naye?

Ukukhululeka kumntu onamathele kuye kuyoyikisa abantu abaninzi kuba besoyika ukuhamba kwaloo mntu ngaphandle kokubuya, kodwa ingcamango yenkululeko yomphefumlo ikuxelela ngenye indlela.
Umbono wokuncamathela emntwini usoloko uchazwa ngabasetyhini kuba abakwazi ukutsiba ubudlelwane kwaye babambelele ngakumbi kule ndoda. Ukuncamathela kwePathological kufana nombono wamagqabi omthi owomileyo omthubi awela nomoya omncinci. , kwaye yiloo nto eyenzekayo kumntu onamathele kwi-pathological attachment, ngoko simfumana ephukile kwaye ebuhlungu ngaphezu koko Wenza izinto ezikude nengqiqo kunye nengqiqo.Ukwimeko yokuwa ngenxa yokuba ubeka ubomi bakhe bonke. ngokusetyenziswa kwalo mntu wumbi.
Xa sikhululwe kwizinto esizithandayo okanye kubantu esibathandayo, siyazikhulula kubo, kwaye ngaloo ndlela sibavumela ukuba bakhululwe kuthi kwaye bahambe ngokwendalo yabo.
Ukhululekile, ndikhululekile .. Ndikuvumela ukuba uhambe ngoxolo, ngaphandle kweemeko okanye ukulindela.
Le yidemokhrasi .. ukuba sivumele abanye kunye nezinto ukuba bangene ebomini bethu ngokuthanda kwabo, kwaye xa befuna ukuhamba, sibavumela ukuba bahambe ngothando; Kuba xa sisenjenjalo, sivumela abantu abalunge ngakumbi nezinye izinto ezintle ukuba zingene kubomi bethu.
Nantoni na esikhululwe kuyo, siyayivumela ukuba ihambe ngokucokisekileyo, kwaye oku kwenza ukuba kungene ubomi bethu ngokulula, ukuba kungenxa yethu kunye nenzuzo yethu, kwaye ukuba ichasene nomdla wethu, iphuma ebomini bethu ngaphandle kwentlungu.
Sikhululiwe siyayishiya iAttachment ayithethi ukuba siyamgxotha umntu, simvumela nje ukuba akhululeke ekukhetheni kwakhe, ukuba sehlabathini lethu kuthetha ukuba unathi ngokuthanda kwakhe, hayi ngokunamathela kwethu kuye. .
Xa sikhululekile kwabo sibathandayo, sibenza basondele kuthi, xa uthanda umntu, ukhululekile ngakumbi.Le yindlela efanelekileyo yokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye nobude obuhlala ngonaphakade.
Nabani na ongakwaziyo ukuzilawula iimvakalelo zakhe ulawulwa ngabanye kuba engowakhe, kunoko udlala ngeziganeko neemeko.

URyan Sheikh Mohammed

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