Indlela yokuba nobuchule xa uthandana

Uluvo lokuqala lolona lwazi lubalulekileyo lokwazana.Umbono wokuqala unokugqibela, unyamalale okanye utshintshe kwimizuzwana eyi-10 yentlanganiso okokuqala, kwaye ke ubudlelwane okanye umsebenzi unokuqalisa kwaye unokuphela ngokupheleleyo. ezinye zifuna ingqiqo ekhawulezileyo kunye nokugxila okupheleleyo ukuze zenze impembelelo entle ngawe.

Ukuba nguwe owazisa amaqela amabini omnye komnye, kufuneka ugcine imigaqo esisiseko yokungeniswa:

Ukwazisa umntu omncinci kumntu omdala, ukwazisa indoda emfazini, ukwazisa umntu ophantsi kumntu ophezulu, umntu ongeyena mntu unesihloko ...

Musa ukunika abantu ngegama labo lokuqala kuphela, kodwa igama elipheleleyo kufuneka likhankanywe kunye nesihloko (uGqr., uNjineli, uMmeli….)

 Musa ukusebenzisa igama elithi (umhlobo wam) xa usazisa omnye wabahlobo bakho komnye umntu ukuze ungakhathazi iimvakalelo zomnye umntu, njengoko engagqalwa njengomhlobo waloo nto.

Kodwa ukuba nguwe ofanele ukuzazisa kwaye akukho mntu ukwaziyo, ke kufuneka uzazise ngegama lakho elinesibini kwaye ngaphandle kwesihloko, ngaphandle kokuba ukwindawo yobuchwephesha efuna ukukhankanya ubuchwephesha bakho, ukuze uzazise ngokupheleleyo. igama nesiteketiso sakho .

Xa umeme abantu abathile, akukho lwazi lwangaphambili phakathi kwabo, kufuneka ukwazi ubungakanani bokuhambelana kwabo, kuba ukwazi kamva kukhokelela kwishishini elidibeneyo, ubuhlobo, umtshato ... okanye ukungakwazi ukujongana nomnye, wena abanaxanduva ngeziphumo zokwazana, unoxanduva lokuqokelela abantu kunye nokuhlonipha ii-asethi isimemo .