Indlela yokuba sesona sohlwayo siqatha kumntu omthandayo kwaye akuphoxe?

Xa umthanda umntu kwaye ubeke ithemba lakho kuye kwaye uvuke kwiphupha lakho elihle kwisandi sentlungu yokukuyeka usuke kuye, uya kucinga ngeentlobo ezinzima zokuziphindezela, ucinga ukuba uya kuzola xa uthatha. ukuziphindezela kwaye uqale ukulahleka ngendlela yempindezelo, kwaye iindlela zakho zokuziphindezela zihlala ziphosakele.

Yiba nomonde kwaye uziphindezele ngokuzolileyo, kuba iimvakalelo zivelisa kuphela iziphumo ezichaseneyo ezingasokuze zikwanelise.

Esona sohlwayo siqatha onokumohlwaya ngaso umntu asikokuthuka, kungekhona ngokuqubuda phambi kwakhe, ngokumenzakalisa, kungekhona nokumthiya, kodwa ngokumbuyisela “entweni” kanye njengangaphambi kokuba umazi.

Akulula, ngoko ke kwizigaba zokuqala kufuneka uzame ukuyisebenzisa kwaye ucinge ukuba "akukho nto" yangaphandle, imele loo nxaxheba phambi kwakho nakwabanye.

Mbuyiseleni encokweni kwasekuqaleni, nimenze umntu ongaqhelekanga, kuba umntu ongaqhelekanga asibi worse ngenxa yakhe, asimthandi, asimthiya.

Khumbula ukuba intiyo ichasene nothando, ngoko ungamniki inzondo, akafanelanga nentiyo .. ufanelwe ukuba yinto engento.

Ukuthuka kunye nokuxambulisana yeyona nto ilula esinokuyenza kwaye yindlela yokuqala yokusabela ethi qatha engqondweni yethu, kodwa yeyona nto imbi kakhulu kuthi.

Esona sohlwayo siqatha nesona sihle kukwenza umntu azive ephulukene nesikhundla sakhe njengoyena ndoqo wobomi bakho yaye uselunxwemeni.

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