Umcwangcisa njani umntwana wakho?

Ngexesha lokulala, ingqondo yethu yokuqonda ibuthongo obunzulu, kodwa ingqondo yethu engaphantsi kwengqondo (engekho ngqondweni) ihlala iphaphile, ngoko ke nabani na unokufumana ulwazi ngokubanzi xa elele, ngoko kwenzeka njani kubantwana?

Kulula kakhulu ukufaka inkqubo ebantwaneni kuba abanayo inkqubo yokucoca (o.k.t. bayamkela lula kwaye abakwaleli oko kuthethwa kubo)

Ngoko ke, musa ukuba mathidala phambi kwabo ngezinto ezimbi ngabo nobuchule babo okanye ngawe, okanye ukuba omnye umzali athethe ngeentsilelo zomnye.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo emasingayihoyi kukuba umntwana uva kakuhle kwaye akakwazi ukuhoywa, sisebancinci sonke sasiva izinto ebengazimiselanga ukuziva thina senze ngathi asiziva.

Ukuba wena nomntwana wakho ninengxaki: yokuchama ebusuku, uloyiko, uvalo, ubunzima kwimfundo…. njl.

Kuya kufuneka ucwangcise ingqondo yakhe engaphantsi kwengqondo ngokuhleba endlebeni yakhe ngaphambi kokuba alale kwaye ngelixa elele

Thetha igama lakhe kwaye uthethe iimpawu ozifuna kuye (uthule, ukrelekrele, uyaluthanda ubisi, uyasithanda isikolo, wonke umntu uyamthanda, uvuka ngokulula aye kwigumbi lokuhlambela….)

Ngokuqwalaselwa ngenyameko ukuba ungathethi nasiphi na isivakalisi ngendlela yokuchasa, njengoko ingqondo engaphantsi kwengqondo isusa ukuchaswa, okufana nalokhu: (Awuyoyiki) ingqondo engaphantsi kwengqondo iya kuyiqonda (Uyoyika).

Phinda iinkcazo ezilungileyo imizuzu emithathu kunye neentsuku ezili-14 ezilandelelanayo kwaye uya kuqaphela iziphumo ozifunayo.