Yintoni eyenza umntwana wakho abe ngumntu ozingcayo?

Ukuzicingela buqu sisenzo esifunyenweyo, asilothuku akhulela kulo, xa sisithi ngomntu uzicingela yedwa, akazalwanga ecingela isiqu sakhe kuphela, kodwa uye watyhubela izigaba ezininzi ebomini bakhe waba ngumntwana ozicingela yedwa. wakhula kwaye uphawu lwakhe olwahlulayo lwaba kukuzingca.. Ziziphi izinto ezikhokelele koko?

idini 

Ngokuqinisekileyo uzincama kakhulu, nto leyo eyakhokelela ekubeni umntwana wakho azive engoyena ubalulekileyo nongoyena ubalulekileyo kuzo zonke iinkalo, nokuba wonke umntu umele ancame ngenxa yakhe njengelungelo alifumeneyo.

Inzuzo 

Musa ukumenza azive emkhulu kwaye umahlula kubazalwana bakhe, nokuba intliziyo yakho imahlula ngakumbi, ukunxaxha, nokuba kungenjongo yakhe, kuya kumenzakalisa isimilo endaweni yokuba kungenelwe.

Ukupha kakhulu

Ukupha ngokugqithisileyo kunye nokuzalisekisa yonke iminqweno yomntwana kumenza abe ngumlingiswa ongonwabanga kwaye ongonwabanga kwaye ukhulele kule ndlela yokuziphatha, afikelele kwinqanaba apho akayi kuvuya ngayo yonke into oyenzela yona, kodwa uya kuhlala efumana oko kumenza adandatheke.

ukubekwa wedwa 

Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bayaqinisekiswa ukuba bayamkhetha unyana wabo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ekudibaniseni nabantu, ngoko umntwana ulahlekelwa yingqondo yokwabelana nabanye, kodwa azifumane ebukumkanini bakhe ukuba kungabikho mntu ubelana naye aze aqhelane nalo mbandela.

Eminye imixholo:

Uqhubana njani nomntu ongenangqondo?

Ujongana njani nonyokozala onomona?

Kunini abantu besithi ukumgangatho ophezulu?

Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka

Uwuphepha njani umsindo wendoda enomona?

Xa abantu bekhobokisa kuwe baze banamathele kuwe?

Ufumanisa njani ukuba indoda iyakuxhaphaza?

Indlela yokuba sesona sohlwayo siqatha kumntu omthandayo kwaye akuphoxe?

Yintoni ekwenza ubuyele emntwini obugqibe ukuba umyeke?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ocaphukisayo?

Uqhubana njani nomntu onesithukuthezi?

Zeziphi izizathu ezikhokelela ekupheleni kobudlelwane?

Ujongana njani nomyeni ongalazi ixabiso lakho nongakuxabisiyo?

Sukwenza ezi zenzo phambi kwabantu, kuba zibonisa umfanekiso ombi ngawe

Iimpawu ezisixhenxe zokuthiya umntu