Ithini inkcazo yesayensi yokwaneliseka kwakho nomntu osuka kwintlanganiso yokuqala?

Siziva sikhululekile kunye nabantu abavela kwintlanganiso yokuqala kwaye asazi ukuba yintoni eyenza ukuba sizive sikhululekile kunye nabo, kwaye abanye asikhululekanga kungakhathaliseki ukuba babonisa ubuhlobo kangakanani nathi .. Ithini inkcazo yale mvakalelo ingaqhelekanga?

Kutshanje ezinye izazinzulu ziye zachaza ukuba kukho imaphu yothando ebuchotsheni bomntu, yaye le maphu yiyo enceda umntu azi ukuba lo mntu usifanelekele okanye akunjalo.

Kwakhona izazinzulu ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba imaphu yothando esengqondweni yomntu luhlobo lweempawu umntu anqwenela ukuba nazo kumntu ofanelekileyo anqwenela ukuba nazo.

Ngoko ukuba kamsinya nje udibana nomntu oneempawu engqondweni yakho, uziva utsaleleka kuye kwaye ngokufanayo.

Ezi mpawu zigcinwa engqondweni ngamaxesha onke obomi, njengoncumo lukanyoko kunye noburharha bukayihlo, nto leyo ethetha ukuba ziimpawu eziqokelelana ebudeni bexesha lobomi, ngokohlobo lwemephu kwingqondo yakho engaphantsi kwengqondo.

Xa udibana nomntu ohlangabezana neemeko ezininzi, ingqondo ikhupha umchiza obangela uvakalelo lovuyo.

Umzimba ukwakhupha ezinye iihomoni, ukongezelela, umzimba ukhupha izixa ezongezelelweyo zeadrenaline kunye nenoradrenaline, ebangela ukuba ubuso bubomvu, izandla zibile, ukuphefumla ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokukhawuleza kwentliziyo.

Emva kokuba umntu engasekho, umphumo wale michiza uyancipha egazini kwaye umntu uyadinwa kwaye adandatheke. Oku kuchaza isizathu sokuba umntu abe buhlungu xa ekude nomntu amthandayo.

Eminye imixholo:

Ujongana njani nonyokozala onomona?

Yintoni eyenza umntwana wakho abe ngumntu ozingcayo?

Uhlangabezana njani nabalinganiswa abangaqondakaliyo?

Kunini abantu besithi ukumgangatho ophezulu?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ongenangqondo?

Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka

Uwuphepha njani umsindo wendoda enomona?

Xa abantu bekhobokisa kuwe baze banamathele kuwe?

Ufumanisa njani ukuba indoda iyakuxhaphaza?

Indlela yokuba sesona sohlwayo siqatha kumntu omthandayo kwaye akuphoxe?

Yintoni ekwenza ubuyele emntwini obugqibe ukuba umyeke?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ocaphukisayo?

Uqhubana njani nomntu onesithukuthezi?

Zeziphi izizathu ezikhokelela ekupheleni kobudlelwane?

Ujongana njani nomyeni ongalazi ixabiso lakho nongakuxabisiyo?

Sukwenza ezi zenzo phambi kwabantu, kuba zibonisa umfanekiso ombi ngawe

Iimpawu ezisixhenxe zokuthiya umntu