Izakhono ezenza wonke umntu avumelane nawe

Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngamnye wethu abe nezakhono zonxibelelwano lwentlalo kunye nobugcisa bokucenga.Xa sihlala sinxibelelana nabantu, kufuneka siyiqonde indlela yokufikelela iingqondo zabo kwaye sazi indlela yokunxibelelana oko sifuna ukukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo nangokuqinisekileyo. Yenza omnye umntu avumelane nathi.Ziziphi ezi zakhono?

Ukwazi ubume belinye iqela 

Ukukwazi kwakho ukucenga abantu ngempumelelo kuxhomekeke kubuchule bakho bokwazi iyeza lomnye umntu kwaye ube nolwazi olwaneleyo malunga nabantu abakungqongileyo.Ukufunda ubuntu babo bakungqongileyo sesona siqalo silungileyo sobuchule bokweyisela.

amabali 

Amabali anesakhono sokuphembelela kunye nokuphembelela abantu.Abantu banomdla ngakumbi ekuthetheni xa besiva amabali kunokuva iinyani kunye namanani.Veza umbono wakho ebantwini ngamabali; Ibenza bakuqonde ngcono.

Isakhono sokusombulula iingxaki 

Abantu bahlala bekhangela abantu abanokusombulula iingxaki.Xa sele unaso esi khono, kunye nezona ndlela zingcono kunye nezisombululo eziphuma kwingxaki, abantu baya kukuhlonipha ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye kule meko kuya kuba lula ukubaqinisekisa.

Ukuzithemba 

Ukuzithemba yinto efunekayo phambi kokucenga.Akukho mntu uyakukhathalela izimvo okanye izimvo zakho xa eqaphela ukuba awunakuzithemba.Ukuba uzithembile; Umsebenzi wokucenga uya kuba lula, kwaye uya kufikelela kwinto oyifunayo kwabanye.

ukuphulaphula 

Abaphulaphuli abalungileyo ngabona bantu banempembelelo kakhulu ebangqongileyo.Ukukhathalela oko abantu bakuthethayo kubenza bakuthande kwaye bakuthande ukujongana nawe. Ubume bomntu bubenza babe nombulelo kumntu okhathalayo ngeengxaki zabo nokuba kungokuphulaphula kuphela, kwaye oku kwenza kube lula ukuba uphumelele ukuthenjwa kwaye ngaloo ndlela ubaqinisekise ngento oyifunayo.

ubuntu 

Kufuneka ube ngumntu, kwaye uqonde intlungu neemvakalelo zabanye abakungqongileyo, kwaye ubathethelele kangangoko unakho.Umntu ongenalo iqondo eliphezulu lobuntu akazukwazi ukukholisa nabani na ngento.

Eminye imixholo:

Ujongana njani nonyokozala onomona?

Yintoni eyenza umntwana wakho abe ngumntu ozingcayo?

Uhlangabezana njani nabalinganiswa abangaqondakaliyo?

Kunini abantu besithi ukumgangatho ophezulu?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ongenangqondo?

Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka

Uwuphepha njani umsindo wendoda enomona?

Xa abantu bekhobokisa kuwe baze banamathele kuwe?

Ujongana njani nomntu othanda amathuba?