Ukumamela abanye bubuchule…yiyiphi indlela yokuziphatha yokuphulaphula?

Isithethi esichubekileyo seso siyabaphulaphula kakuhle abanye, ngoko unokuba ngumphulaphuli njani ngobuchule?

1- Sukuthetha okanye uphazamise

2-Jonga ngqo kumntu omameleyo

3- Mamela umxholo wentetho nokuba uthetha ngayiphi na indlela

4- Gxininisa ingqalelo yakho kumagama kunye neentsingiselo zawo kwaye wahlule phakathi kwezinto ozaziyo kunye nongaziyo

5- Nciphisa iziphazamiso zakho

6- Nxibelelana nesithethi sakho ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye ungahlanganisi isithethi sakho kwinto esiza kuyithetha

7- Ukuzama ukuba nomonde kunye nokunyamezela ukuba incoko inde

Eminye imixholo: 

Uhlangabezana njani nabalinganiswa abangaqondakaliyo?

Kunini abantu besithi ukumgangatho ophezulu?

Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka

Uwuphepha njani umsindo wendoda enomona?

Xa abantu bekhobokisa kuwe baze banamathele kuwe?

Ufumanisa njani ukuba indoda iyakuxhaphaza?

Indlela yokuba sesona sohlwayo siqatha kumntu omthandayo kwaye akuphoxe?

Yintoni ekwenza ubuyele emntwini obugqibe ukuba umyeke?

Uqhubana njani nomntu ocaphukisayo?

Uqhubana njani nomntu onesithukuthezi?

Zeziphi izizathu ezikhokelela ekupheleni kobudlelwane?

Ujongana njani nomyeni ongalazi ixabiso lakho nongakuxabisiyo?

Sukwenza ezi zenzo phambi kwabantu, kuba zibonisa umfanekiso ombi ngawe

Iimpawu ezisixhenxe zokuthiya umntu

Imikhwa emihle ikwenza ube ngumntu othandeka .. Uyifumana njani?