Izimpawu okufanele ungazinaki, zikhombisa ukuphela kobudlelwano

Ukungabi nandaba nokubukeka kwakho

Kuyaziwa ukuthi indoda ayinandaba kangako nanoma yiluphi ushintsho ekubukekeni kwakho, kodwa ukukushaya indiva ngamabomu nokuzama ukunciphisa umthelela wokubukeka kwakho noma imizamo yakho yokuvusa isikhwele kuyizinto ezingenakuzitshwa.Kusho ukuthi akanandaba. ngawe nhlobo.

Ukungabi nandaba nemizwa yakho

Ukuzwelana nokwabelana ngemizwa nomunye umuntu kuyisisekelo sobudlelwane bomzwelo, futhi indaba yokungabi nozwelo ngezinkinga zakho, noma ngabe ukuncoma okuhle, nokugcona imizwa yakho kuwuphawu oluvela endodeni oluya kuwe ukuthi uzizwa. unesithukuthezi ngawe nokungabi nandaba nemizwa yakho, kodwa kufanele uhlakaniphe futhi uphuze, Ukuqhubeka nokukhononda ngeke kumenze azwelane kakhulu.

Ukukuqhathanisa nabanye

Kwesinye isikhathi amadoda athanda ukwenza abantu besifazane babe nomona ngokuqhathanisa nabanye, kodwa nakuba lokhu kungase kuzwakale kuhlekisa ngezinye izikhathi, uma ubonisa ukukhungatheka kwakho ngalezi zenzo zokuziphatha futhi uphikelela kuzo, akanandaba nentukuthelo yakho noma uthanda omunye wesifazane futhi akanandaba. anginandaba nawe kangako.

Ziba imilayezo namakholi akho

Ukuziba mhlawumbe kungesinye sezinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuvimbeleni noma yibuphi ubuhlobo obungokomzwelo, futhi ukwehluleka kwakhe ngokuphindaphindiwe ukufona noma ukugwema ukuphendula izingcingo nemiyalezo yakho, ikakhulukazi ethinta imizwa, kubonisa ukuthi le ndoda yawela emthonjeni wesithukuthezi, ikakhulukazi uma lokhu kwakungesona isici sobuntu bakhe obuvamile.