Ungasusa kanjani i-self-flagellation?
Ubhekana kanjani nakho ngendlela efanele?

Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zifanisa ukuzikhukhumeza kanye nokuzethemba njengobuthi obufihliwe, ngoba bungena ngaphakathi kuwe bukwenza uzizonde futhi bungase bulimaze ukuzethemba nokuzethemba kwakho, bucekele phansi ubudlelwano bomndeni nomphakathi, futhi ekugcineni kube nomthelela omkhulu. ekukhiqizeni emsebenzini, esikoleni, nakwezinye izici zokuphila.

Ukuzikhukhumeza kuwukwehla okuphawulekayo kwezinga lokuzethemba, okubonakaliswa ngokulahlekelwa komuntu ukuzethemba ngobuntu bakhe, izimfanelo zakhe, namakhono akhe angokomzimba nangokwengqondo.Isimo sokuzikhukhumeza ngokuvamile sihambisana nokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo. insimu, njengokucindezeleka.

Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuzishaya indiva kanye nokuntula ukuzethemba kungokwemvelo kubantu abangaphethwe noma yiziphi izifo zengqondo, futhi kubonakala kubo ngendlela yokungabi nandaba nokubukeka kwabo nobuntu babo, kanye nalezi zimpawu. ngezinye izikhathi kungase kwenziwe ihaba noma kusungulwe ngumuntu ngaphandle kwesidingo noma isizathu esizwakalayo.

I-self-flagellation, ekugcineni, kungase kube ukuzivikela ekuhlaselweni kwendawo yangaphandle noma ukuziphatha kwabantu abakuzungezile.

Izinyathelo eziyisisekelo zokuqeda ukuzikhukhumeza futhi ubhekane nakho ngendlela efanele.

zixolele.

Zikhumbuze ngezinto ezinhle.

zinakekele.

Dlula izimo ezingezinhle ngokushesha nangempumelelo.

yenza okuthandayo.

Cabanga okuhlu.

Phila esikhathini samanje ukhohlwe okwedlule.