Izisekelo zemfundo ezwakalayo nelinganiselayo yengane

Izisekelo zemfundo ezwakalayo nelinganiselayo yengane

Imfundo ingesinye sezidingo eziyisisekelo ukuze izingane zithole ukukhula okugcwele nokunempilo. Kunezinhlobo eziningi ezivamile zokukhulisa umzali emhlabeni wonke, nakuba ingane ngayinye ihlukile futhi ingase ingafaneli abanye, eminye imininingwane ingasiza ekutholeni isitayela esifanele nesingcono kakhulu sokuba umzali.

Ngokwalokho okwanyatheliswa iphephandaba i-Times of India, abazali kudingeka benze umehluko oqondile phakathi kokunakekela nokuziphatha.” Uma kuziwa endabeni yokwakha indawo esekelayo yokukhuthaza ukukhula nokukhula, kufanele kubekwe imingcele nokulawula okunengqondo ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuphepha kwengane. kanye nokuthuthukiswa kobuntu.

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Ukukhulisa umzali okugunyaziwe ukuhlangana kwemfudumalo yomndeni nesiqondiso esinamazinga athile nezilawuli. Indawo yothando nokukhulumisana, kuyilapho futhi ibeka izindinganiso ezinengqondo, ikhuthaza ukwakhiwa kokuzimela nokucabanga ezinganeni ezinekhono lokuzwa ubunye bomkhaya.

Uchwepheshe wezingane uDkt. Tanya Mehra uthi: “Ukuba umzali okuvumelayo, naphezu kwezinhloso ezinhle, kunikeza inkululeko enkulu, engenakukwazi ukuveza ikhono lokusungula izinto.” Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukusungula uhlaka oluthile ukuze kuqhutshekwe nentuthuko yaphakade.”

Ukuba ngumzali ogunyaziwe

Ukuba ngumzali onegunya kubonakala ngemithetho enemingcele kakhulu, okulindeleke kakhulu, nokuvumelana nezimo okulinganiselwe. Kodwa nakuba isiyalo singabaluleka, ukugxila ekulawuleni kungabangela ukuba ingane ilahlekelwe ikhono lokwenza izinqumo kanye namakhono okuxazulula izinkinga ukuze anciphe. Ukulinganisela phakathi kwesiyalo nokuqonda kuyisihluthulelo sokukhulisa umzali okuphephile nokunempilo.

UDkt. Mehra uthi izinga eliphansi lokubandakanyeka kwabazali ekuphileni nasekukhulisweni kwengane linemiphumela emibi esikhathini esifushane nangesikhathi eside, ephawula ukuthi ukuthola ukuvumelana phakathi kokunikeza ukuzimela nokuba khona kubalulekile enhlalakahleni yengane. “Izingane ziyakhula kahle lapho zithola ukusekelwa nesiqondiso kubazali bazo,” kunezela uMehra.

Izibopho ezingokomzwelo ezeqile

Ngokuphambene, ngokukaDkt. Mehra, kunesinye isitayela, okuyimfundo yokunamathisela, esekelwe ekudaleni izibopho eziqinile ezingokomzwelo phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Isitayela sokunamathisela kwezemfundo kumele sihambisane nomqondo wokunakekela ohlelekile ngoba kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane zibe nenani elifanele lokuzimela njengoba zikhula.

Imfundo eqondile igxile ezindleleni zokuqinisa, zokudumisa kanye neziqondiso zokuziphatha. Isitayela esihle somzali sikhuthaza izingane ukuthi zifunde ngokuthuthukisa ukusebenza kahle nokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba okunempilo. Ukulingana phakathi kokuqondisa nesiyalo kuyisisekelo sokukhula kwengane kuyo yonke indawo.

Iqhaza lezemfundo labazali lihlanganisa nokulungiselela izingane ukubhekana nezinselele empilweni emazingeni eminyaka alandelayo. Kumelwe kucatshangelwe ukusebenzisa zonke izimo namathuba okusiza ingane ukuthi izivumelanise nezimo futhi ithole amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga kuyilapho iyinikeza amathuluzi adingekayo ukuze ihambe kalula nangokuphepha lapho umuntu esemdala.

NgokukaDkt. Mehra, “Ukuxhumana kuyisisekelo sanoma iyiphi indlela yokufundisa ephumelelayo. Uzwela ezingxoxweni kanye nokuchitha isikhathi esanele nengane kwakha ukwethemba futhi kuqinisa ubuhlobo bayo nabazali futhi kamuva emphakathini.

Ukulungisa indlela yokufunda

Yonke ingane ihlukile, futhi alukho uhlobo olulodwa olulingana nalo lonke umzali. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuvumelanisa nesitayela esiyinhloko somzali ngokusho kwemvelo kanye nezithakazelo zengane futhi ngokuvumelana nezidingo zesigaba esisha ngasinye, ngenhloso yokuthi ingane ithole ukusekelwa okudingekayo ukuze iphumelele.

Ukwakha indawo elalela ngokujulile, ebanzi, futhi enaka ngokujulile izidingo zengane kudinga ukufuna izinketho ezifanele zenhlanganisela enempilo yesiqondiso, isiyalo, nothando, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane iyachuma njengoba iqhubeka nokuphila.

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