Uma unalezi zimfanelo, umdala ngisho noma umncane futhi ngokuphambene nalokho

Ubusha abugcini ngeminyaka ethile, kodwa ungaba mncane eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalombili futhi ube mdala lapho usuneminyaka engamashumi amabili, ukuguga kuwukuziphatha okuveza ukuzinikela kanye nezinsuku ezimweni nezigigaba nokulahlekelwa inhloso yokuphila komuntu.

Izimpawu zokuguga:

 Ukuthukuthela okuhlosiwe kanye nokucutshungulwa kwezinto ezingenamsebenzi

 Yonke indaba yokugxekwa, izeluleko noma ukucaciselwa imjikela ekujuleni "Wena kungani ungimelene nami" noma ungizondelani!! Ukholelwa ukuthi amazulu azungeza yena kanye naye.

 Iseluleko esiqhubekayo.. umuntu onikeza izeluleko eziningi, ukugxeka nokulungisa unomuzwa wangaphakathi wokuzibona ephansi okumzwisa ubuhlungu... ubhekana naye ngokulungiswa okuningi

 - Ukukhononda nokunganeliseki kufihlwa umuntu ngenxa yothando ngezwe, abantu noma abanye.Ukukhononda nakho kuwumuzwa wangaphakathi wokukhaphela.

 Ukuntula ukuguquguquka kwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo... okungukuthi, ukuqina emicabangweni nasekunyakazeni

 Ukuhwaqabala, ukudangala, ukudabuka ngesikhathi esedlule, nokulahlekelwa isikhathi samanje. Ukwesaba ikusasa elingaziwa kanye nesikhathi esidlule esilahlekile.

 Ukungabi nomdlandla, ukuthatheka, ukulangazelela, ukuhlela kanye nesifiso sokuvelela

 Ukucula izinkazimulo zakudala nokunyundela ezizukulwaneni nasezizukulwaneni ezizayo. Abantu abasha nsuku zonke bahle kakhulu kunayizolo

 Ukunensa ekuthathweni kwezinqumo, ukuhlehlisa, ukuhlehlisa, ukunqwabelana, izitokwe eziningi zezingubo nezinkumbulo ukuvala ukushoda.

 Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuqinisekiswa nokuncika kwabanye kanye nokuthola ukunakwa kwabo, noma ngabe kuyisifo, ukuhlupheka nezinkinga kanye nokwenza

 Ubuxhwanguxhwangu, ukubambelela efazweni, elikhona nelizuziwe.