Uma unale mikhuba, uhlakaniphile ngokomzwelo

ubuhlakani bemizwa: Kuyikhono lomuntu lokusebenzelana kahle naye kanye nabanye ukuze azuzele injabulo enkulu kakhulu yena nalabo abamzungezile.

Iyini imikhuba yabantu abahlakaniphile ngokomzwelo? 
Bazazi kahle, njengoba bekwazi ukuzibheka ngokwethembeka, futhi behlukanisa phakathi kwemicabango nemizwa yangasese.

Ikhono lokuzilawula, ukulawula imizwelo, nokulawula imizwa nemizwelo, futhi abanakho ukucasuka okucasulayo, futhi abazikhathaleli bona kuphela, kodwa bayayiqonda imizwa yabanye.

Ukuzwelana nalabo ababazungezile: banamandla okuqonda okufunwayo, izidingo, nemibono yabanye, futhi bathambekele ekulaleleni kahle wonke umuntu obazungezile, okunikeza ubuhlobo obuhle nabantu abaningi.

Umdlandla: Bayiqonda kahle imizwa, ngakho bangakwazi ukukhuthaza futhi baqinise imizwa, bagxilise ithemba nomdlandla kubo nakwabanye, futhi benze ngendlela ehloniphekile.

Ukuqaphela imizwa yabo emibi, ngakho-ke bavame ukuhlehlisa ukwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile baze bafinyelele ukuzola okuphelele kwengqondo.