Thola indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokuzithoba kwengqondo 

Thola indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokuzithoba kwengqondo

Ukuthula okujezisayo noma i-Traitement silencieux ingenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthobisa ngokwengqondo i-narcissist asebenzisa kuzo ukuze anqobe isisulu ngenxa yokuzizwa kwakhe ukwehla kwamandla emali kanye nokuchayeka ekubandlululeni, ngakho-ke usebenzisa ngamabomu ukuthula kungazelelwe, ngaphandle kokunikeza nokuncane. ukuthethelelwa ukuthula kwakhe, okungase kuthathe izinsuku noma amasonto, isimo siyindlela yokucindezela nokuthobisa futhi akukhona nje ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa yomuntu siqu noma intukuthelo noma intukuthelo noma ubani angase adlule kukho, kunalokho, isijeziso sangamabomu esimgomo walo uwukujezisa ukulimaza ngokwengqondo kulowo ohlukunyeziwe ukuze athole "i-narcissistic catering" kuphela.

Okudingekile kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe kulesi simo ukugoba nokucela intethelelo nokuxolisa okuqhubekayo ngaphandle kwesizathu ukuze anelise ubuntu obugcwele be-narcissistic ngaphandle kokuba kube nesizathu sangempela esidinga lokho.

Ngakho-ke, ukuthula kuleli cala kuwumyalezo obhekiswe kulowo ohlukunyezwayo ukuze amazise ngokungabi nalutho kwakhe nokungabaluleki kwakhe empilweni ye-narcissist, ozama ngamabomu ukumlulaza nokumthobisa ngale ndlela enonya, ngisho nesifiso sakhe sokumazisa njalo. icala, ubudedengu kanye nokungabi nalutho..

Nakuba lokho umgadli akwenzayo maqondana nesisulu sakhe kuwumonakalo osobala, awukho umthelela wezinto ezibonakalayo kuye. noma isidingo sakhe sokunakwa nothando ikakhulukazi, ngokusungula umuzwa wokudelelwa, obungadala isimo sokuhlukaniswa, ukudabuka, bese kuba nokudangala ngenxa yalokhu kuhlukana okungenasizathu, okuwumgomo ofiswa yi-narcissist ukuqinisa ukubaluleka kwakhe. ukuba khona empilweni yesisulu sakhe, okwanelisa i-ego yakhe ekhukhumele ngendlela eyanelisa ukuzonda kwaso..

I-narcissist ivamise ukusebenzisa le ndlela esigabeni sesibili sokubusa kobudlelwano, okuyisigaba sokulahlekelwa ukulawula emzamweni wokuphinda aphoqelele ukulawula kwakhe nganoma iyiphi indlela.

Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, ebhekwa njengenye yezinhlobo ezingcolile kakhulu zokukhwabanisa kwengqondo, ingenye yezinkomba eziyingozi zokuthi ubuntu abulingani, futhi kungase kube inkomba yokuba khona kwesifo sengqondo esilawula ukulawulwa kobuntu be-narcissistic. ukuziphatha nobudlelwano.

Indlela yokubhekana nalokhu kuziphatha 

Impendulo, yebo, ilele ekuqiniseni ukungavikeleki kulolu hlobo lokungathembeki ngokomzwelo ngokuthatha ukusabela okuzolile nokuhluzekile okuyingxube phakathi kokuzixaka kwalowo ohlukunyeziwe ngaye ngangokunokwenzeka nokumnika ukubaluleka nokunaka okwengeziwe ngisho nothando olwengeziwe, okungaphikisa umqondo wokungabi nalutho kanye nebanga lokucabanga okungalungile futhi ngaleyo ndlela kungadonseleki osizini, ukuzihlukanisa kanye nokucindezeleka, futhi ngenxa yokuthi i-narcissist izobukela eduze umthelela walokho azama ukudonsela isisulu sakhe kukho, isinyathelo esibalulekile lapha ukuthi ukuzama ukwenza ngokunganaki ngokuthula kwe-narcissist ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ungabonisi noma yikuphi ukungaphatheki kahle ngesimo esikhona. Lesi simo sizodala isimo sokuphelelwa ithemba ku-narcissist, okuzomphusha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuthi aphule lokhu kuthula, kodwa hhayi ngokuxolisa noma ukuhlehla okucacile, kodwa ngomzamo onzima ngaye wokuvusa inkinga ecatshangwayo ezophela ngokuhlukunyezwa. ukuthethelela kanye nokweqa isimo ngokuguquguquka nokuhluzeka kwengqondo.

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