Ukufaneleka komphakathi kuhlobene eduze nenjabulo!

Ukufaneleka komphakathi kuhlobene eduze nenjabulo!

Ngo-1938, abacwaningi baseHarvard University benza ucwaningo olwathatha amashumi eminyaka ukuze bathole: Yini eyenza umuntu ajabule ekuphileni? Abacwaningi baqoqa amarekhodi ezempilo kubahlanganyeli abangu-724 abavela emhlabeni wonke futhi babuza imibuzo enemininingwane ngezimpilo zabo ngezikhathi zeminyaka emibili.

Futhi ngokusho kwalokho okwanyatheliswa inethiwekhi ye-American CNBC, impendulo yayiwukuthi, ngokuphambene nalokho abaningi abakucabangayo, ukuthi kwakungaphumeleli ukuphumelela kochwepheshe noma kwezezimali, ukuzivocavoca umzimba noma ukudla okunempilo. Ukuthola okungaguquki, okuqinisekiswe ochwepheshe be-Harvard eminyakeni engu-85 yocwaningo, ukuthi ubudlelwano obuhle benza abantu bajabule, babe nempilo enhle, futhi baphile isikhathi eside ngaphandle kwezifo.

Isihluthulelo sokuqala senjabulo

Ubudlelwano buthinta umuntu ngokomzimba. Abanye abantu babona umuzwa wokukhululeka lapho becabanga ukuthi othile ubazwisisile phakathi nengxoxo emnandi? Ebudlelwaneni bothando, abanye bangase balale ngenxa yesasasa elidlulele. Ngakho-ke, ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi umuntu ujabulela ubudlelwano obunempilo nobulinganiselayo, kubalulekile ukuthi azilolonge “ukufaneleka komphakathi.”

Abanye abantu bavame ukucabanga ukuthi lapho sebesungule ubungane obuqinile nobudlelwano, bazokwazi ukujabulela inkampani ethokozisayo. Kodwa empeleni, ukuphila komphakathi kuwuhlelo oluphilayo oludinga umkhuba nokunakekelwa ukuze lukhule futhi luphile.
Ukufaneleka komphakathi kudinga ukuthi ubudlelwano bubaluleke, ukuthi umuntu athembeke kuye mayelana nokuthi usinikela kuphi isikhathi sakhe nokuthi uyakuthuthukisa yini ukuxhumana okumsiza ukuthi achume.

Ukuhlola ubudlelwano

Abantu bayizidalwa zomphakathi, futhi akuyena wonke umuntu ongazenzela konke akudingayo. Ngakho-ke, abantu badinga abanye ukuze bahlanganyele nabo futhi babasize, futhi badinga ukuhlola ukuqiniseka namandla obudlelwane babo bomphakathi ekukhanyeni kwezinsika eziyisisekelo ezi-5, kanje:

1. Ukuphepha Nokuphepha: Uma umuntu ezibuza ukuthi afonele bani uma evuka ethukile phakathi kwamabili? Noma ubani ongaphendukela kuye ukuze athole ukwesekwa ngesikhathi sobunzima? Uzokwazi noma ubani ohlangene naye ebudlelwaneni obumnika umuzwa wokuphepha nokulondeka.
2. Ukufunda nokukhulaUkubona umuntu okhuthaza umuntu ukuthi azame izinto ezintsha, abambe amathuba, futhi aphishekele imigomo yakhe yokuphila kuzomsiza ukuthi athuthuke futhi asondelane naye ukuze aqhubekele phambili.

3. Ukusondelana Kwemizwa Nokwethembana: Kungokwemvelo ngomuntu ukuba abelane ngezimfihlo zakhe futhi axhumane ezikhathini zokuba sengcupheni nomuntu noma abantu azizwa esondelene nabo ngokomzwelo futhi abethembayo.
4. Ukuqinisekiswa Kobunikazi kanye Nokuhlangenwe nakho Okwabiwe: Ezimpilweni zabantu abaningi kunothile owabelana nabo ngesipiliyoni esiningi futhi abasize baqinise umuzwa wabo wobunikazi. Ukuzihlanganisa nomuntu onikeza lezi zici kusiza ukubhekana nokufika kwempilo ngokuzinza nangokuzethemba.
5. Usizo (olunolwazi futhi olusebenzayo)Inikeza umuzwa wokuthi kunothile umuntu angaphendukela kuye lapho edinga ulwazi oluthile noma usizo ekuxazululeni inkinga engokoqobo, ukulungisa uxhumano lwe-Wi-Fi noma ukubuyisela idokhumenti elahlekile ocingweni noma kukhompuyutha. Inikeza umuzwa wokuphepha futhi kukhombisa ukumethemba kwakhe omunye, ongenamahloni ukubonakala phambi kwakhe.
6. Ukuzijabulisa nokuphumula: Umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uvela ezihlotsheni noma kubangane, owenza umuntu ahleke noma ajahe ukuyombiza lapho ecabanga ukuthatha uhambo noma ukuyobuka ibhayisikobho, ubaluleke ngokufanayo nazo zonke ezinye izici ezinhlanu.

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