Izeluleko ezithile zezemfundo zabazali abasebenzayo

Izeluleko ezithile zezemfundo zabazali abasebenzayo

UDkt. Asmita Mahajan, onguDokotela wezingane kanye neNeonatologist, uthi izingane kweminye imindeni lapho bobabili abazali besebenza khona, zakhuliswa ngendlela engafanele njengoba “abazali bechitha imali eningi bethengela izingane zabo izipho, okwakuthinta indlela ezikhuliswa ngayo. bakhule bengenalo ikhono lokwazisa Bayazazisa izinto kunalokho bakholelwa ukuthi umkhathi uzungeza kubo ukuze nje banelise izifiso zabo. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho lezi zingane zingenawo amathoyizi nezingubo zokugqoka eziningi, zizizwa zingafaneleki.” Ngakho-ke, umuzwa wokubonga, umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nelungelo elinengqondo kufanele ugxiliswe ezinganeni. Abazali bangalandela amathiphu nezinyathelo ezilandelayo:

1. Yeka Ngokweqile

Abazali akufanele bavumele zonke izimfuno nezifiso zezingane zabo, ngoba ekugcineni zizobalimaza. Ezitolo kuhlale kunokuthile okusha nokukhangayo, kodwa ochwepheshe batusa ukuthi izipho zinikezwe izingane kuphela njengomvuzo wokufeza ingqopha-mlando entsha ekuphileni kwazo noma ngezikhathi ezithile ezibalulekile. Ngamanye amazwi, izipho kufanele zamukelwe emikhosini nemicimbi noma zithole le miklomelo okungukuthi akufanele neze zibe umthombo wokunethezeka. Lezi zipho zinganikezwa njengembuyiselo lapho izingane zenza imisebenzi yazo yansuku zonke, njengokusiza izingane zakubo, ukugcina amagumbi azo ehlanzekile nokuqeda umsebenzi wazo wesikole ngesikhathi, phakathi kwezinye izinto.

2. Vumelanisa nokutholakalayo

Izingane kufanele zifunde ukuzivumelanisa namathoyizi nemidlalo yazo yamanje. Akufanele baphikelele ekufakeni amamodeli wakamuva esikhundleni sawo, njengoba kufanele bafunde ukusebenzisa izinto zansuku zonke isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma kungenjalo, kuzoba inkinga engapheli njengoba ingane izophikelela ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthola amamodeli amasha anoma yini noma ngabe iyawadinga noma cha.

3. Linganisa okulindelekile

Izingane akufanele zincishwe imidlalo eyisisekelo futhi kufanele zivunyelwe ukujabulela ngokugcwele ubuntwana bazo. Kodwa futhi kumele bafundiswe ukulinganisa abakulindele futhi bangazitika ngokweqile, ukuze bangonakali. Izingane zingasizwa ukuba ziwine izipho noma amathoyizi ezifisa ukuba nazo, kunokuba abazali baphindaphinde ukuthi “cha,” “angikwazi,” “angikwazi,” nokuthi “akufanele.”

Uma ingane icela isipho esibizayo, esingadingekile, abazali abaqaphelayo ukuthi ngeke sibe nenani lemali, nokuthi ingane izoyikhohlwa ngokushesha ngemva kokudlala nayo inyanga, ochwepheshe bayeluleka ukubambezeleka kokuthenga le nto, noma ungayithengi nhlobo futhi uyishintshe ngomkhiqizo Okunye kunenzuzo enkulu esikhathini esifushane nesikhathi eside.

4. Ukubeka imigomo

Ochwepheshe batusa ukuba abazali babekele izingane zabo imigomo okufanele ziyifinyelele uma befuna ukuthola ithoyizi abalithandayo noma isipho. Ezikhathini eziningi, ingane izofunda ukuthi ukuzibekela imigomo nokusebenza kuyo kusiza ekunqobeni izinto nokuthi imizamo yayo yokuyinqoba ngeke isheshe iphele ngemva kwezinsuku noma amasonto ambalwa.

5. Hlakulela imikhuba emihle

Ochwepheshe batusa ukuthi abazali bazijwayeze imikhuba emihle nezingane zabo, okuhlanganisa isilinganiso esilinganiselwe sesikhathi sesikrini, isikhathi somndeni esiyikhwalithi, nesikhathi sokujabulela ukuhambahamba ngaphandle nokudlala ngaphandle kwesikhathi sokufunda ukuze yonke imisebenzi ilingane futhi ifanele ukuphila kwengane.

6. Imbiza Yokubonga

Ilungu ngalinye lomndeni kufanele lifake amanothi embizeni yokubonga usuku nosuku mayelana nokuthi yini ebenza bazizwe bebonga ngalolo suku. Ekupheleni kwenyanga noma isonto, umbuthano womkhaya noma isimiso singabekelwa eceleni ukuze kufundwe amanothi osuku, ngokuqinisekile azosakaza imizwa efudumele nokubonga kuwo wonke umkhaya.

7. Uzwela lomuntu

Ongoti bathi eminye imicimbi eyisipesheli efana nezinsuku zokuzalwa ingasetshenziswa kahle njengohambo lokuya ekhaya lezintandane noma ezindaweni ezimpofu kungahlelwa lapho ingane ikwazi ukunikeza ingane izinto zokubhala ezifana nezincwadi, amakhekhe noma ukudla. Futhi lapho ingane ibona indlela laba abancishwe amathuba abajabula ngayo ngokuthola izipho noma ukudla namaswidi, iyoqala ukwazisa izibusiso ngendlela engokoqobo futhi ifunde ukwazisa lokho ekuthola ngokuvamile ekuphileni.