XNUMX izici amadoda azizondayo kwabesifazane

Into ethandwa kakhulu yindoda kowesifazane ubufazi bakhe, futhi izonda yonke into emphuca lobu wesifazane.

1- Owesifazane yindoda enganaki ukubukeka kwakhe, umzimba wakhe noma indima yakhe njengomama noma umama wekhaya.

2- Owesifazane okhulumayo okhuluma kakhulu, ongayeki ukukhuluma ngayo yonke into, noma ingamthinti! Futhi ungalokothi ulalele imibono yabanye abantu. Okungukuthi, nakuba ukumthwala isikhathi esifushane njengomuntu osebenza naye noma umngane kungenzeka, kodwa ukumthwala njengomfazi impilo yonke kubhekwa njengento engenakwenzeka kumuntu.

3-Okwesithathu kukhona owesifazane oqamba amanga futhi okhohlisa kakhulu, futhi iqiniso lakhe lingaziwa emangeni akhe.

4- Ongenalwazi, futhi lapha asisho owesifazane ongafundile, kodwa ungowesifazane ongazi lutho ngezenzakalo ezimzungezile, ongenawo umbono futhi ongenakuxoxwa naye noma kukhulunywe naye.

5- Ozikhukhumezayo noma ozidlayo, ohlale ezitshela ukuthi ungcono kakhulu kukho konke futhi lokhu kubonakala ekuphatheni kwakhe labo abaseduze naye, ngakho uphakeme futhi uyacasula.

6- Kunzima! Ungowesifazane ohlale ehlukumeza umyeni wakhe futhi amdalele ihlazo nokululazeka phambi kwawo wonke umuntu.

7- U-Al-Nakdah, ummangali ohlale ekhala ophendulela impilo yomyeni wakhe nezingane zakhe esihogweni.

 8- Ukungcola nokunganakwa kwenhlanzeko yakhe, abanye abahlale beqhelelene nayo ngenxa yokuntula iphunga elimnandi, wadembesela ukuxubha amazinyo, noma wadembesela ukugeza isikhathi eside.

9-Ukwenza izinkinga nalabo abaseduze kwakhe, ngokuthi "bashiwo futhi bashiwo", futhi bakhulume ngalokho okungamthinti.

Futhi manje, sithandwa sami, ukuthi sesiqedile ukubala lezi zimfanelo ezimbi, ingabe uthola noma iyiphi yazo kuwe, uma impendulo inguyebo, qaphela, lezi zimfanelo zingase zilahlekelwe ngokushesha, uthando lokuphila kwakho !!!!