Ukuziphatha okukhombisa ukuthi lo muntu uyakuthanda ngasese

Abanye banamahloni futhi abanye abathandi ukubonakala bebuthakathaka phambi kwabanye, futhi kukhona abangenawo umqondo wokuthatha isinyathelo futhi banezinga eliphezulu lothando ngawe.

Imicabango engu-1:

 Izimfihlo ezinkulu, amehlo ayaphilisa, ngakho-ke uma ebuka umuntu amthandayo isikhathi eside, kuwuphawu lokuthakasela, futhi lokhu kubukeka kuvame ukuhlala isikhathi eside, ngisho nokumema omunye umuntu ukuthi akuqaphele. , khona-ke ushintsha isiqondiso sokubukeka kwakhe futhi aphendule ubuso bakhe, ukubuyisela ibhola Kamuva, uma enethuba lokwenza kanjalo, futhi lapho le nqubo iphindaphindiwe, kuyinkomba yokuthi lo muntu unemizwa ngempela ngawe.

 2 Uyakuziba futhi abonakale ethukile

Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi abantu ababili basemhlanganweni phakathi kwabangane, khona-ke kungase kubonakale obala ukuthi omunye wamanje uyayishaya indiva enye, futhi esidlangalaleni kwabanye, futhi isizathu salokhu kuziphatha kungase kube ukuthi akazi ngempela ukuthi yini. kufanele enze noma asho, ezinye izimpawu zizovela kuye ukudideka nokushuba okungajwayelekile, ikakhulukazi uma ingxoxo iphakathi kwezinhlangothi zombili ngqo.

3 Naka indlela osabela ngayo.

Uma amaqembu amabili ekhona ephathini noma enomngane, iqembu elithanda ngasese ukunakwa futhi lifisa ukwazi ukusabela kothandiweyo lizovela kuyo yonke imibono ayivezayo, nakuwo wonke amazwi awashoyo, futhi angase azame ngamaningi. izikhathi zokubamangaza ngehlaya, umzamo wokwenza lowo amthandayo ahleke, bese kuphakama ukutuswa phakathi kwabo, kusukela ekuqapheliseni okunembile ngale ndaba ukuthi ukunaka, ukucutshungulwa nokugxila kuzoba kakhulu engxenyeni yesithandwa, futhi nakuba lezi zenzo zizovuleleka kubo bonke, kodwa isithandwa singase singazinaki uma sifuna ukwenza indaba ibe esinye isahluko, noma ukuyiqeda.

4 Ukulangazelela ukwazi izinto ozilibazisayo, kanye nalokho okuthandayo:

Okunye okuthathwa njengophawu lothando ukuthi umuntu othandana naye ukhathalele izinto azithandayo, athanda ukuzenza ekupheleni kwesonto, ngekusasa lakhe, ufunda kanjani, yini ayithandayo kuqala. , lokho akubuka ku-TV naku-inthanethi, imuphi umculo awuthandayo, futhi kuthathwa njengomzamo wokuveza izinto Ezivamile phakathi kwabo, noma uzokwenza kuhlangene kamuva njengomzamo wokusondela kuye, nokwandisa inani lemihlangano phakathi kwabo kanye nezingxoxo mayelana nokuzilibazisa, futhi le ndlela ingabhekwa njengehlakaniphile.

5 ulimi lomzimba

Ngolunye lwezilimi abanye abalwazi kahle, kanti omunye angase angafundile kulo. Ongoti nongoti bathi ulimi lomzimba lubaluleke kakhulu ekuqondeni ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu nezithandani. Ukunyakaza kokuthambekela kolunye uhlangothi kuya kolunye. kusho umuzwa wakhe wokuphepha nobubele ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukumamatheka okukhipha amazinyo amhlophe Olunye uphawu lothando nokunethezeka akuzwayo, kubalulekile ukufunda nokulufunda kahle lolu limi.

6 Uzoyithola nomaphi lapho uya khona:

 Uzama ukuthola ulwazi mayelana nokuthi ukuphi elinye iqembu, futhi usebenza ngazo zonke izindlela ezitholakalayo, ezingase zingeniswe ngezinye izikhathi zibe kuleyo ndawo, futhi ngaleso sikhathi, kubalulekile noma kuhlale kuzungeze isithandwa, naphambi kwamehlo akhe.