Amaqhinga okuveza umuntu onamanga empilweni yakho!!!

Inkohliso eyanele namanga, ngoba ngeke ubabekezelele abaqambimanga empilweni yakho, kodwa umazi kanjani umuntu onamanga kwabaneqiniso, lapho abanye bethu benokungabaza ngalokho abanye abantu abakushoyo, naphakathi kwesifiso sokungacabangi futhi ukuphika omunye. , naphakathi kokulangazelela ukuqiniseka ngeqiniso nobuqiniso balokho omunye akutshela kona Abanye abantu benza umzamo okungafanele uchitheke, ikakhulukazi njengoba imiphumela yocwaningo olusha lwesayensi ibonisa ukuthi ithuba lokuthola abaqamba amanga linzima kakhulu kune abanye bethu bacabange, ikakhulukazi uma umqambimanga egwema ukwenza izimpawu ezidumile nezivamile lapho othile eqamba amanga.

Ngokwephephandaba laseBrithani, i-“Daily Mail”, ucwaningo olwenziwa yiNyuvesi yase-Edinburgh lwathola ukuthi abantu abaqamba amanga alula bayakwazi ukufihla izimpawu nezimpawu ezingase ziveze amanga abo, njengokugwema ukubheka amehlo noma ukubonisa umuzwa wokwesaba. isithukuthezi ukudida ukunaka kwabanye.

Umlobi ophambili ocwaningweni uDkt. Martin Corley uthi: “Imiphumela ibonisa ukuthi abantu banemibono eqinile mayelana nokuziphatha okuhlobene nokuqamba amanga, futhi abantu benza cishe ngokuzenzakalelayo ngokwale mibono lapho belalela abanye. Kodwa lezi zimpawu azikhishwa uma uqamba amanga, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi umuntu oqamba amanga uzama ukucindezela lezi zimpawu nokushukuma komzimba.”

UDkt. Cooley uchaza ukuthi yena nethimba lakhe labacwaningi basebenzise umdlalo wokuxoxisana ukuze bafune umcebo, ngokubamba iqhaza kwabadlali abangaba ngu-24, ukuze bahlole izinhlobo zenkulumo nokuthinta okwenziwa abantu lapho beqamba amanga, ngakolunye uhlangothi, noma kunjalo. ngakolunye uhlangothi, bahlaziya indlela umlaleli ahumusha ngayo ukuthi inkulumo iyiqiniso noma ingamanga.

Abacwaningi baqaphe izimpawu zokuqamba amanga ezingu-19, njengokumisa isikhashana emishweni nokunyakaza kwamashiya, futhi lezi zimpawu zazisetshenziswa njengendlela yokuthola ukuthi omunye wabahlanganyeli uqamba amanga komunye.

Abacwaningi babike ukuthi babone ukuthi isilaleli esamukelayo siyahlulela ngokuthi othile ukhuluma iqiniso noma uqamba amanga, phakathi namakhulu ambalwa omzuzwana, ngokubona nje ukuthinta noma uphawu lwalo, noma lapho umuntu oqamba amanga ephindaphinda. amagama noma ukububula okunjengokuthi: “Umm” noma “Uh,” noma baphinda amagama kungenasidingo noma bazilungise phakathi, phakathi nomusho.

Abacwaningi balolu cwaningo, imininingwane yabo eyashicilelwa kumagazini wesayensi i-Cognition, bachaza ukuthi ezinye izimpawu zokuqamba amanga zihlanganisa lezi ezilandelayo:
• Gcwalisa izikhathi zokuthula
• Qala kabusha ingxoxo
Ukunwetshwa komusho
• Ukunyakaza kwekhanda, isandla, noma ihlombe
• Ukumamatheka noma ukuhleka

Nokho, abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi abaqamba amanga benza umzamo oqotho wokwazi kahle amanga ngokugwema lezi zenzo nokunyakaza, njengokuzama ukwenza ubuso bubonakale bunzima noma bungathathi hlangothi futhi bagweme noma yikuphi ukunyakaza okungenancazelo ngomzimba.

Abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu okutholakele kungavula umnyango wocwaningo lwesayensi olwengeziwe mayelana nendlela yokuthola inkohliso namanga.