Amathiphu okwenza isithandwa sakho sibuyele kuwe ngaphandle kokuziphoxa:

Isikhathi ngemuva kokukushiya kwesithandwa sakho singesinye sezigaba ezinzima kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane ukuba adlule kuzo, ikakhulukazi uma inhliziyo yakho isanamathele kuye futhi izinkumbulo zisakunxusa ukuthi uqhubeke nemizwa yakho kuye.

Nawa amanye amaqhinga enza isithandwa sakho sibuyele kuwe sizisola futhi sikulangazelela:

Okokuqala Zama ukuqhela eduze kwakhe futhi umnikeze isikhathi sokuzwa ubuze obushiywe ukungabibikho kwakho kuye futhi ungajahi izinto

OkwesibiliGxila kuwena futhi uzame ukulungisa impilo yakho yomuntu siqu kanye nemiphumela eyenzeka ku-psyche yakho ngenxa yokuhlukana kwakhe nawe.Jabulela impilo yakho, ushintshe ukubukeka kwakho, futhi ungazami ukuxhumana naye noma ukumncenga ukuthi abuye.

Okwesithathu Cabanga ngezinkinga ezibangele ukuhlukana bese uzama ukuba nengqondo futhi umvumele ukuthi azitholele izinguquko ezinhle ezenzeke ebuntwini bakho, kodwa kusukela kude, lokhu kungenziwa ngokusebenzisa abangane bakho bobabili, njengoba lokhu kuyiphuzu elibalulekile lokuxhumana. Zama ukuxhumana nabo ngalesi sikhathi.

Okwesine Yiba nobungane naye.Awunankinga nokulokhu uthintana naye, kodwa kufanele ukhethe isikhathi esifanele noma ukhulume naye ngendlela yobungane, futhi ungaziphathi ngokukhukhumeza umtshele ukuthi ukhumbula kangakanani noma usenakho. uthando lwakho oludala ngaye, kodwa wenze ngokuphambene nalokho.

V Iqhinga elidala kodwa eliphumelelayo: makabe nomona ngawe.Lena yindlela yobungane, kodwa iyamangaza umphumela wayo.Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umhawu wakhe ungabonakala ngendlela efanayo futhi uvuthe isikhwele sakho.Ungadonsiswa emizweni yakho futhi ugodole.

Okwesithupha Uma ezama ukubuyela emuva futhi akuthinte, ungamsoli noma ubuyise izinkumbulo ezimbi, futhi ukhulume naye ngenhlonipho, kodwa qaphela ukuhlehla, uthathe izaba zokuthatha ithuba lokucabanga ngokunengqondo ngobuhlobo bakho.

Ezinye izihloko:

Amaqhinga ayisithupha okwenza isithandwa sakho sihlale sikukhumbula futhi sikufonele ngaso sonke isikhathi

Ubuveza kanjani ubuxhwanguxhwangu besithandwa sakho ngaphambi komshado?

Ubhekana kanjani noshintsho lwesithandwa sakho ngakuwe?

Uyivuselela kanjani imizwa yakhe ebandayo ngawe???