Izinyathelo zokubamba umkhwenyana

Uzingela kanjani umkhwenyana? Ungamangali ngalombuzo, ngoba awugqugquzelwa yimicabango yami.Lombuzo uyisihloko sencwadi ebhalwe ngumbhali u-Amal Mahmoud, futhi emakhasini ayo unikeze iqoqo lezeluleko zamantombazane mayelana nokushada noma inhlangano, futhi ngesikhathi sokugcina sekubhebhetheke isimanga seminyaka yobudala ephezulu yokushada, futhi indaba yokushada isiphenduke i-Connection inkinga ekhathaza amantombazane amaningi.Abesifazane abaningi, ikakhulukazi labo abazethembayo ngamakhono abo engqondo nangokwengqondo futhi bazethemba, abasenawo amahhovisi emishado noma abalingani bama-electronic, ngakho bazifunela abayeni ukuze baziphilise; Umshado yikho ukuziphilisa.

Ungamangali ukuthi mingaki imishado eyenziwa ngamaphathi noma imicimbi yomphakathi.Izindawo zokujwayelana manje sezithuthuke kakhulu, nocwaningo lwezengqondo lwaqinisekisa ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuthi intombazane ibuyisane nayo kuzo zonke izinyathelo ezithathayo.Nazi izinyathelo ukubamba umkhwenyana:

• Ungalilahli ithemba futhi ungadabuki futhi ukhale ngenhlanhla yakho lapho usukhulile umshado wakho, ukulawulwa kwemicabango enjalo kuba nomthelela omubi esimweni sakho somqondo kanye nendlela obhekana ngayo nabaseduze kwakho, okungase kuhlukanise abanye bakho, njengoba bangase bacabange ukuthi ucindezelekile noma awubathandi.

• Ungakhombisi ukulangazelela ukushada, futhi ungenzi sengathi uxakwe yizinkanuko zokuthi “Uphi umkhwenyana, ngiyamfuna njengamanje”, futhi okuhlukile kwalokho ukuthi uyovulela umngane isifuba, isihlobo, noma omunye walabo osebenza nabo njengehlazo, hhayi ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ukuzethemba.

• Ukuhlanganisa empilweni yansuku zonke neyomphakathi kuyindlela emfushane kakhulu yokukukhipha esimweni sokuma esikwenza ube isisulu esilula sokucindezeleka futhi kukuphushe ukuba unakekele ubuhle bakho nobuhle bakho, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi uphuthuma ngemuva kombono. ukuze umkhwenyana acashe ngomnyango” bese uphuthuma ukuphuma kakhulu futhi uchithe ubusuku nalabo obaziyo noma ongabazi ngoba Lokhu kungase kubeke isithunzi sakho engozini.” Ukucabangela nokuzola kuwukuphela kwesihluthulelo sakho sokudlula kulokhu. isiteji esidlula njengefu lasehlobo lapho uthola umkhwenyana nomyeni omuhle uNkulunkulu akubhalele wona.

• Ukubamba iqhaza emaphathini nasemicimbini yokuzijabulisa kozakwabo besifazane.Imicimbi, ikakhulukazi imishado, ingenye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu umkhwenyana abheka ngazo umakoti wakhe.Hlala ubambe iqhaza emicimbini enjalo futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uvela ngokumamatheka okuzolile nokuthandekayo.

• Ukuya kuma-mosque nokuhambela amakilasi esayensi, njengoba imishado eminingi yenzeka ngale ndlela, lapho umama womkhwenyana eya ekilasini lesayensi futhi ebona intombazane emthandayo futhi emkhethela indodana yakhe, noma ebuza izethameli e-mosque. mayelana nomakoti ofanele indodana yakhe.

Okokugcina, ngithanda ukukutshela ukuthi umshado uyisinqumo nokunqunyelwa kusengaphambili, futhi ubhalwe uNkulunkulu ngosuku oluthile, ngakho kufanele waneliseke, ubekezele futhi unxuse, njengoba lezi izihluthulelo ezibalulekile zokuthola umyeni olungile naye. uzochitha impilo yakho yonke.