Izizathu ezinhlanu zokuhluleka ngokomzwelo

Ubudlelwane bomzwelo buhlala bugeleza imizwa kanye nemizwa ephezulu futhi emangalisayo, kodwa sivame ukubuza ukuthi yiziphi izizathu zokuhluleka kobudlelwane bothando? Bonke ubuhlobo buhle ekuqaleni futhi buhlanganiswe nazo zonke izincazelo zenjabulo, kodwa ngokushesha ukunganaki nokungavumelani kuqala ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa futhi uthando luphela ngokuhluleka ngokomzwelo nokwehluleka kungase kuphindwe ngesipiliyoni sesibili, noma mhlawumbe ngaphezulu.

Ubudlelwano bemizwa abulandeli izindinganiso ezimisiwe noma kwehlisa ifilimu yothando ngobudlelwano bangempela. Bobabili izinhlangothi kufanele baqonde ukuthi ubudlelwano obubodwa bukhethekile bona, kanye nezimo zabo ezihlukile kobunye ubudlelwano.
Kunenqwaba yemibono eyiphutha eholela kulokhu kwehluleka, okuhlanganisa:

1- Ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo akusho ukuthi uthando oqale nalo luzoqhubeka luqinile
Ubuhlobo bomzwelo budlula ezigabeni eziningana, kuqala ngokukhanga kwezinye, izigaba ezijulile nezinengqondo, kanye nenkolelo yomunye wamaqembu ukuthi ukwehluleka kwezinye izenzo zothando akusho ukulahlekelwa imizwa yothando, nokuqhubeka kwamandla. yesimo sothando lapho ubuhlobo baqala khona akunangqondo, futhi akusho futhi ukuthi akunasimilo sothando, kodwa kufanele Bobabili izinhlangothi kufanele baqonde ukuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane kusukela kwesinye isigaba, bazivumelanise futhi babhekane nezigaba ezizayo.

2- Ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo akusho ukuthi omunye umuntu akephuli noma aphikisane naye
Ukushintshana kwezingxoxo, izingxoxo kanye nokuhlukana kwemibono akusho ukungahambisani nokuhluleka kobudlelwano, futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi bobabili abathintekayo baveze imibono yabo futhi bafunde lapho igama elithi "cha" lishiwo ngaphandle kokuzizwa benamahloni futhi benamahloni, kodwa indaba ilele endleleni yokuxoxisana nokuphathwa kwezingxoxo phakathi kwezinhlangothi zombili, okumele zibonakale ngobunyoninco, kanye Nokubona ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi ukuyekelela akulehlisi inani lomunye, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka iphutha lakhe.

3- Ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo akusho ukuthi omunye uthatha isimilo somunye
Inkolelo yokuthi ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo ilele ekuvumelaneni okuphelele kwemibono yezinhlangothi zombili, futhi ukushintsha elinye lamaqembu ukuze lanelise elinye ukuze livumelane nemvelo yakhe kuwumbono ongenangqondo ngoba umuntu ngamunye unesimo esikhethekile nendlela yokuphila, futhi ukuphindukuzalwa komunye wamaqembu kubuntu bomunye akusona isizathu sokugwema ukwehluleka kobudlelwane, futhi ukuzama ukuphoqelela umbono okhethekile kubangela ukuphela kwawo Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuphikelela kwawo kulele umehluko owunikeza injabulo ilukuluku nokutholwa kolunye uhlangothi.

4- Ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo akusho ukuthi izinhlangothi zombili azinawo amaphutha
Iqiniso elithile kufanele libonakale, eliwukuthi akekho ongenasici, kodwa kukhona amaphutha alula angahlalisana futhi avumelane nawo, futhi afanele isimo somunye futhi angeke abhubhise ubuhlobo, futhi buyakwenza. akusho ukuthi izinhlangothi zombili azinasici, futhi kudingekile ukuba kushaywe indiva ukuziphatha okuthile namaphutha okungenzeka Kwenzeka phakathi kwabalingani ababili, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, kodwa ngaphansi kombandela wokuthi angeqi imingcele yemvelo evumelekile futhi ayibangeli ukulimala kwazo zonke izinhlobo namafomu kunoma iyiphi yazo, futhi igxile ezintweni ezinhle ezingase zihlukanise umlingani kwabanye.

5- Ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo abuhambisani nomthetho wowinile nohluliwe:
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi umuntu ngamunye unezici zakhe, umlingiswa, ubuntu obuzimele kanye nesitayela.Umbono oyiphutha wokuthi elinye lamaqembu amabili linamandla futhi lilawula ngaphansi kohlaka lokunaka kuholela ekuncishweni komunye umuntu kanye nokufiphala kobudlelwano. phakathi kwabo kanye nokwehluleka kwayo okuqinisekile.

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URyan Sheikh Mohammed