Ukuziphatha okubi okuvela kubazali kwenza izingane zibe nzima

Ukuziphatha okubi okuvela kubazali kwenza izingane zibe nzima

Izinhloso ezinhle zabazali zokusiza izingane zabo zingase zigcine zidala ukulimala kokuzethemba, ngokusho kombiko oshicilelwe yi-Psychology Today.

Ukuzethemba okunempilo nokuqinile kubalulekile ezinganeni. Ukuba nokuzethemba okuqinile kukukhuthaza ukuthi unqobe izinselele, uzame izinto ezintsha, futhi ukholelwe kuwena. Ukuzethemba kunomthelela omkhulu endleleni umuntu azibheka ngayo, ekulolongeni indlela aziphatha ngayo nezinqumo zakhe.

Abazali abanothando ngezinye izikhathi bangalimaza ngokungenhloso ukuzethemba kwengane. Ukungakhulumisani kahle kwabazali ngokuvamile kubangelwa ukungaboni ngaso linye kwabazali, okungase kuthinte kabi ukuzethemba kwezingane nakuba abazali benezinhloso ezinhle eziyinhloko. Ukuze ugweme lawa maphutha, kufanele uqale wazi ukuthi ayini nokuthi adala kanjani umthelela omubi.

Izinhlobo ezi-4 zokuziphatha okungalungile

1. Ukugxeka Kabuhlungu Ukugxeka umzali kungase kube inselele ngokomzwelo, ikakhulukazi uma kwenziwa ngendlela enokhahlo noma elulazayo. Izinkulumo ezigxekayo zingaqeda ukuzethemba kwengane nomuzwa wokubaluleka kwayo futhi kungabangela imizwa yokudabuka, intukuthelo, noma ukukhungatheka. Ukusola okubukhali kungaholela nasekukhuthazeni okuncane ezinganeni kanye nokungazethembi ngamakhono azo.

2. Ukuvikela ngokweqile: Ukuvikela njalo ingane ezinseleleni nasezithiyoni kungayivimbela ekuthuthukiseni ukuzethemba nomuzwa wokufaneleka. Nakuba abazali bengase bafune ukwenza konke abangakwenza ukuze baqiniseke ukuthi izingane zabo azihlupheki ekuphileni, okuxakayo ukuthi bacindezela izingane zabo ngokuzilawula ngokweqile. Ukuvikela ngokweqile kunganciphisa namathuba engane okuhlola, ukufunda, nokwenza amaphutha, konke okubalulekile ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni kwayo.

Izingane ezivikela ngokweqile zingaholela emizweni yokukhathazeka nokungazethembi, njengoba zingase zizizwe zingakulungele ukubhekana nezwe zizodwa. Kungase futhi kudale umuzwa wokuncika kanye nokuntuleka kokuzimela, okungaba inkinga njengoba izingane zishintshela ekubeni abantu abadala.

Abazali kudingeka balinganisele phakathi kokuvikela izingane zabo nokuzivumela ukuba zifake ubungozi futhi zibhekane nezinselele, ukuze zizisize zikhule zibe abantu abazethembayo nabazimele. Ukukhuthaza ukuzimela, ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba, nokufundisa amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga kungasiza ekwehliseni imiphumela emibi yokuvikela ngokweqile.

3. Ukujova imizwa yecala: Kuyenzeka ukuba umzali abuze ingane ukuthi ubeyozizwa kanjani uma esendaweni yakhe noma uma othile esesimweni esithile. Kodwa, ngokuvamile, abazali bathatha lendlela efinyelela umkhawulo futhi bazame ukwenza izingane zabo zizizwe zinecala ngemicabango, imizwa, noma izenzo zazo. Abazali abasebenzisa umuzwa wecala ukuze balawule izingane zabo bangaba sengozini yokudelela izingane zabo.

4. Ukukhuluma ngokubhuqa: Abanye abazali basebenzisa ukubhuqa ngokusho izinto abangaziqondile noma basikisele okuphambene nalokho abakushoyo ngezwi labo. Ukusetshenziswa kwenkulumo ebhuqayo kuyabalimaza abantwana ngoba kubenza babe lenhloni. Ngeshwa, ukuthuka ingane ngokuhlekwa kudala isithiyo ekuzameni ukuxhumana ngokuphumelelayo - futhi kuholela emiphumeleni emibi kakhulu.

ukuziphatha okuphikisayo

Ngenxa yokuchayeka ekuziphatheni okungafanele komzali, naphezu kwezinhloso ezinhle, ingane ingase ithukuthele, iveze intukuthelo, ihlale iphikisana, ibe nenkani, futhi idelele izicelo ezifanele.

Amathiphu Ajwayelekile

Izindlela zokusebenzelana nengane zidlala ithonya elikhulu ekulolongeni indlela ethuthukisa ngayo ukuzethemba kwayo ekuphileni kwayo. Lapho abazali bekhuluma ngezindlela ezinhle kakhulu, bangaba nethonya elihle ngokwengeziwe ezinganeni zabo, bazisekele futhi babe nengxenye ekubeni babe nokuzethemba okuqinile. Abazali kufanele bakhuthaze indawo enakekelayo nesekelayo futhi banikeze uthando olungenamibandela, isikhuthazo nokuqiniswa okuhle ukuze bakhuthaze ukuzethemba okunempilo kwengane.

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