Izimfanelo zendoda ekahle okufanele uhlobane nayo ngaphandle kokucabanga

1- Indoda ozwa nayo ukuthi ikusasa lingcono:

Ukuze ukwazi ukukunikeza umuzwa wokulondeka nokuthi ikusasa likulindile, naye unomuzwa wokuthi ikusasa lingcono ngisho noma izimo zezomnotho ziphikisana nawe, umuzwa wakhe ophezulu wokwaneliseka nokwamukelwa kanye nephupho lekusasa elingcono.

2- Ukwazi ukunqoba ubunzima:

Ngomqondo wejubane lokuphuma kwakhe ezingcindezini ezingokwengqondo nezempilo ezimzungezile, ngakho uyacaca emehlweni nokuqonda, ukuqonda ukuthi konke okwenzekayo empilweni mayelana nempumelelo nokungqubuzana kubalulekile ukuze impilo iqhubeke, futhi akathandi ukuma noma ukuma phambi kwephuzu elimunca ukuphila namandla akhe kanye nempilo namandla alabo abahlala naye.

3- Ubani owabelana nawe ngakho konke:

Indoda ekwabelana nawe ngezinkathazo zayo, injabulo kanye nezikhathi zokunganaki uma ukwazi ukulawula ijubane lemizwa yakho, indoda engami isikhathi eside phambi kwezinto ezingathi sína, efuna ukukubona uphumelela eduze kwayo futhi iningi. okubalulekile ukunaka kwakhe imininingwane emincane.
4- Thembeka:

Indoda engayazi iqamba amanga ngoba izethemba kakhulu kanye nengqondo yalabo abaphambi kwayo, iyakwazi ukuxoxa nawe ikuchazele futhi ikuqonde ukuze nihlangane ninqobe izingcindezi zempilo, indoda engahlali ngaphakathi kwayo unomphela, kodwa evulela umphefumulo wayo kuwe ukuze wabelane nayo ngisho nangaso sonke isikhathi, ithembekile futhi icacile ekuthatheni izinqumo.

5- Unganqikazi futhi ungashintshi

Lendoda iwumcebo ophuma emcebweni wempilo.Indoda enqenayo yisela elintshontsha izikhathi ezinhle.Uyobe usuzithola usuphakathi kwempilo entekenteke nengenasisekelo.Indoda emoshayo izokuhlanyisa.Ngeke wazi ukuthi yini emthokozisayo, yini emcasulayo, nokuthi yini ayithakaselayo ngempela.

6. Insizwa Emnandi

Indoda ejabule ihlala ingomunye wabantu abasondelene kakhulu nenhliziyo yowesifazane, hhayi kuphela lapho umshado nokuxazulula izinkinga, kodwa futhi nobudala, le ndoda izokwenza i-monotony yokuguga, esinye isigaba esizokwenza ujabule futhi umusha. Ngokungafani nomuntu ojwayelekile ozokwenza impilo yakho ibe yisicefe futhi vele akakwazi ukulungiselela lezimanga ukuze aphule isimiso.
7- Ezothando

Umuntu wesifazane ufuna umuntu ezwa kuye amazwi amnandi, asho amavesi ezinkondlo ezindlebeni zakhe, adlale ngobuhle bakhe nobuhle bakhe, ammangaze ngezikhathi ezithile ngesixha sezimbali, futhi akathathi owesifazane. uthando ngaye kanye nempilo yakhe ndawonye njengesiphetho esabikezelwa, kodwa ngokuvamile kusebenzela ukumenza azizwe uthando lwakhe nokwazisa ngaye kanye nokubaluleka kokuba khona kwakhe empilweni yakhe.

Kufanele ucabange ngezinga umyeni wakho, isoka noma isithandwa sakho enalezi zimfanelo noma ezinye zazo, futhi uma kungenjalo, zama ukumnika ukuzethemba kuye; Ukuthuthukisa ubuntu bakhe, futhi udale kuye indoda yamaphupho akho, futhi ungazikhohliwe, yebo.Uma ethola ukuthi uthuthuka kuwena, naye uyofisa ukuzithuthukisa; ukuze ikufanele.

 

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URyan Sheikh Mohammed