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Amaqiniso ayishumi angokwengqondo ebudlelwaneni babantu
Amaqiniso ayishumi angokwengqondo ebudlelwaneni babantu
Amaqiniso ayishumi angokwengqondo ebudlelwaneni babantu
1- Lapho umuntu elahlekelwa isithakazelo kanye nokubamba, yilapho esondelana ngokushesha nabantu abamphatha ngomusa futhi angase abathuse ngothando oluzumayo ngaphandle kwesingeniso.
2- Kunesimo esibizwa nge-psychological divorce, umuntu othintekayo kuso adivose lowo amthandayo ahlukane naye ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo, noma ngabe imizimba isondelene kangakanani, imiphefumulo iyobe ikude.
3- Imali inika amandla...futhi lowo ohola imali ngensada kwandisa ukuzethemba, amandla kanye nomdlandla, futhi inselelo iyanda kubo...kodwa imali iyanda ngayo isimilo sokuzicabangela abantu abaningi.
4- Ucwaningo olwenziwe yiNyuvesi yase-Essex eBrithani lufakazele
Owesibili ozelwe emndenini unesibindi kakhulu kubafowabo, ukuthanda izigigaba nokubhekana nezinkinga.
5- Ukuzizwa unecala, ukuzisola, nokuzisola ngamaphutha kuphakathi kwezici zobuntu obubucayi, kanye nobufakazi bonembeza ophilayo, kodwa ubuningi bawo budala ukucindezeleka.
6- I-Adventure umuzwa othathelwanayo. Uma ungabaza ukwenza into ethile futhi ubona othile owandulelayo wayenza phambi kwakho, nakanjani uyoba nesibindi sokuyenza.
7- Umsindo wokushaya kwenhliziyo kamama wakho uhlobene nemizwa yakho yokunethezeka, ngoba yiwo kuphela umsindo owawuzwa ngesikhathi usesiswini sakhe, uthola ukondleka, induduzo nokuphepha.
I-8- Ijubane lezinyembezi eziwela phakathi nokudabuka noma injabulo eyeqisayo libonisa ukuthi umnikazi wayo unobuntu obungokomzwelo nokwethembeka ekuvezeni imizwa yakhe nokuba sengozini.
9- Kukhona abanye abantu abangazange bayifunde i-psychology kanye nokuhlaziywa kwesimilo, kodwa banekhono lokuqonda abantu, ubuntu babo nendlela yabo yokucabanga, futhi kuyithalente laphezulu futhi iphesenti elikhulu kunabesifazane kulokhu.
10- Abanikazi bobuntu obunethonya, ubathola bephindaphinda amagama abantu ngesikhathi bekhuluma nabo.. Le ndlela iqeqeshelwa ubuciko bokuxhumana ukuze idonse ukunaka kolunye uhlangothi.