Shintsha impilo yakho..ngokucabanga kwakho..indlela ukucabanga okuhle okungashintsha ngayo izimpilo zethu

"Umusa ophelele kakhulu ukuzenzela wena ngaphezu kwakho konke."

Sonke sihlala sizama ukuzithuthukisa ukuze sibonise ukubaluleka kwethu, kodwa iningi lethu likholelwa ngempela ukuthi izifiso zethu zingafezeka, inqobo nje uma siqhamuke nendlela yangaphandle noma ngengozi yomsindisi.

Umuntu oqondileyo ngumuntu okwaziyo ukucacisa ukuthi yini ayifunayo kanye nemigomo ayifunayo futhi aqale ukwakha isu lokumsiza kulokho futhi enze konke okusemandleni akhe ukufeza izinhloso zakhe, uyakwazi ukunqoba izinkinga ezibhekene naye. ubheka imiyalezo engemihle achayeka kuyo njengamathuba okumelwe awasebenzise.Kuyiqiniso, unesifiso esinamandla.Ungumuntu ogcwele ithemba, njengoba engumuntu othandekayo othonya ukuphila kwabanye.

Ukucabanga okuhle kungashintsha kanjani impilo yakho:

Ukufunda nokuzithuthukisa komuntu siqu:

Abantu abanesiko elibanzi abanqunyelwe emehlweni ngakho-ke bamane bathole izixazululo, futhi isimangaliso sokuthuthuka komuntu siqu ukuthi kukuthatha ukusuka ebuphofini kuye engcebweni, futhi usuka ekuhluphekeni uye ekunethezekeni.Iningi labantu abaphumelelayo liqala ngawe amandla alinganiselwe noma engenayo imali. nhlobo, lapho uzinikela ekufundeni Futhi ukhule futhi uthuthukise imicabango yakho ibe ngcono futhi ube nethonya elikhulu, uzokwazi ukulawula ngokugcwele inkambo yempilo yakho, futhi uzothola izinyathelo zakho zisheshisa ukuya phambili nangesivinini osenzayo. ungalindeli.

Ukudla kwengqondo okunempilo:

Funda izincwadi, omagazini, nezihloko ezifundisayo, ezikhuthazayo noma ezikhuthazayo. Yondla ingqondo yakho ngolwazi oluphakamisa umoya wakho futhi olukwenza uzizwe ujabule futhi unethemba futhi kukunikeza ukuzethemba okukhulu kuwena. Ukuphrakthiza izinto ozithandayo nemidlalo oyithandayo kukusiza ukuthi uvuselele futhi ushukumise ukujikeleza kwegazi futhi kukusize uzizwe ukhululekile. Lapho uzijwayeza umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa. uthanda, uzizwa ezolile futhi ikusiza ukuthi usebenze futhi uzuze, Yondla ingqondo yakho njalo ngemiyalezo eyakhayo eyenza ukwazi ukuncintisana emkhakheni wakho.

Tshala ukugxeka kwabanye ekuthuthukiseni ukucabanga kwakho okuhle.

Akwenzeki ukujabulisa bonke abantu futhi uthole ukutuseka kwabo ngoba siphila endaweni ehlukahlukene yenhlalo lapho isici ngasinye sinendlela ehlukile yokucabanga, ingqondo kanye nezici zengqondo. Ukwamukela ukugxekwa okuvela endaweni yangakini kuyinto evamile, kodwa akusebenzi lapho wena

Ngokuqinisekile ebuntwaneni bakho wezwa ukugxekwa okubukhali njengokuthi: “Uyisehluleki, awusizi ngalutho, uncike, uyisiphukuphuku…. “

Ungavumeli ukugxeka okulimazayo kuphazamise ukwakha isimilo sakho, kodwa kuguqule kube isisusa sokuzibonakalisa.Khuluma nawe ngendlela eyakhayo.Lawula izwi elikhuluma kuwe ngaphakathi kuwe. Sebenzisa iziqinisekiso ezinhle enkathini yamanje, njengokuthi: “Ngiyazithanda, ngithatha umthwalo wemfanelo, ngihlakaniphe kakhulu.” Cishe amaphesenti angu-95 emizwa yakho anqunywa indlela okhuluma ngayo nawe, futhi amaphesenti amahlanu yilokho okutshelwayo. Ngakho-ke unesibopho ngezinkolelo zakho kanye nawe uqobo.UNkulunkulu uzinike wena, ngakho-ke yibize.

Cabanga kahle nangobuhle ngalokho onakho.

Kunabantu abazifelayo ngemininingwane befuna ubumnyama bezinto, ufica bematasatasa betolika amagama nokuziphatha kwabangani babo nezihlobo zabo, kungani esho leli gama, kungani engibuka kanje, ukuthi ulahlekelwa abangane nezihlobo, isibonelo, angase abe nendlu enhle, kodwa ubheka idokodo elincane okungeyena Enza umbono wakhe womuzi wakhe njengesihogo ... Ukugxila ngemininingwane enjalo kuphazamisa ukuphila futhi kuphendule isihogo futhi senza imicabango yomnikazi wayo yakhele phezu kokukhohlisa nomona njengoba kuthinta impilo yakhe kabi.Bheka impahla yakho ubonge ukuba khona kwayo ezandleni zakho.Ngendlela obungayilindele.

Cabanga kahle ngokuzihlola kwakho

Kulula ukuhlola abanye, kulula ukubeka izimpilo zabo etafuleni futhi uzihlukanise, futhi kulula ukunikeza ama-fatwa kubo ukuthi yini okufanele bayenze ukuze baguqule izimpilo zabo zibe ngcono, kodwa ukwahlulela okungalungile ngabantu nezimfanelo zabo. kanye nezenzo zidinga ukuzigxeka thina ngokwethu ngento efanayo ngesikhathi lapho udinga ukuhlolwa Ukuze wenze izinqumo ezizothuthukisa ubuntu futhi ziguqule inkambo yakho… kusho ukuthi unengqondo ekuyihloleni.Ungazifaki ihaba futhi uzizwe usufinyelele ukuphelela.Lokhu kumisa umdlandla wakho wokuzithuthukisa futhi akukhulisi amaphutha akho.Futhi ama-negative akho ayakukhungathekisa,zibone ngeso labanye - ngubani abamelene nawe -.

Amathemba amahle

Ukuzijwayeza ukuba nethemba kanye nokulindela okuhle kungenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu ongaba ngazo umuntu onesimo sengqondo esihle. baba imikhuba.Qaphela imikhuba yakho...ngoba iba isimilo sakho.Buka isimilo sakho....” Ngoba iyona enquma ikusasa lakho.” Isazi sefilosofi esingumShayina uLao Tzu
Njengoba ukwazi ukulawula lokho okulindele, kufanele uhlale ulindele okuhle kakhulu.
Khumbula hadith Qudsi: “Nginjengoba inceku Yami ingicabanga.

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URyan Sheikh Mohammed